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Bluey Wrote:
Sounds like you really had a bad time of it at school. Wold you say its made you into moor of a positive person in general? After all you are doing this campaign thing. That BTW I would like to hear moor on Smile


Well, i still have a low self esteem, but it didnt maked me into a more postive person, my daughter is the one that made me a more positive person.
I'm doing the campaign things becuase i dont want other kids so suffer in the way i did, and i want to help the bullies too, we offer counseling and some programs and activities, and i've seen results and im happy about it.

08-15-2008 10:24 AM
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I only just left school but I think it sort of boosted my confidence and made me want to acheive more when I was there.


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08-17-2008 11:37 AM
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I don't know if I did have low confidence or not. Like I still kept to myself and didn't talk or want to talk much but I was confident in what I was doing during lessons and I was never in exams. What happened just seemed seperate.

08-17-2008 12:01 PM
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RE: Being bullied

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I don't know if I did have low confidence or not. Like I still kept to myself and didn't talk or want to talk much but I was confident in what I was doing during lessons and I was never in exams. What happened just seemed seperate.


I think you still can be confident at school in your work even if you where bulled. I never was that confidant in my worth ether. I think what it can do for someone like you who was confidant is that it still can distract you from concentrating on your work if there is ppl in that class that are trying to get to you.

I really did not take anything from school. So I would differently say I have learnt moor out of school then in.

08-17-2008 06:20 PM
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Whoops I typed it wrong "I was never in exams" should be "I was confident in exams".

08-19-2008 11:45 AM
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I am just wondering how many ppl hear got bullied when they where at school are still are getting bullied know.

I got bullied at school and it takes every thing away from you. I was not the most confident pupil at school and being called names and having paper clips fired at you and what not did nothing for the bit of confidence I did have.

I wish I could go back now with what I know now and do it again. I would not let them get away with it now. Every time I was pushed to the flow I should of got up and smacked them strait in the mouth. What would be the worst that could happen? I get beat on. But at least they would get hurt as well. Are I would tell the world what was happening instead of shouting up and being ashamed of it. Its not my fault that this happened but back then I was so ashamed of it I told no one.

Being called and sometimes physically hit every day at school tacks confidence away from you on a lively that no one should have to deal with. No wonder I struggle with my spelling. I have learnt moor on grammar and spelling in the past 2 years from posting on forums then I ever did at school. But when you don't feel relaxed and are constantly looking over your shoulder its not surprising that I did not even grasp the basics of english litrecher.

Being frightened to go to school is something no kid should have to fear. I do think that if I had told ppl and been different about things back then that I would now have a completely different life. But to have been different back then I would have needed some confidence to have dealt with the bullying. so its kinder a catch 22. Know I would sooner be killed fighting then feel the shame that I felt back then in knowing that I let them get away with doing all the stuff they did. I should of told my dad even tho he would of thought less of me and yes I still think that he would of done and am now 32 but fuck it I should of any way. It least then I could of started dealing with the problem instead of baring my head in the sand.

I just watched something on TV about it and it burt a few things back to me. This girl that was being bullied. God I felt so sorry for her. If only I could put what is in sighed my head into hers. She would know there are ways to deal with it. But it goes back to having no confidence to do any thing about it. That's the problem. Bout time you do get the confidence the damage has already been done.

My advice to any one that's getting bullied. Tell the howl wide world. A teacher, mum, dad any one that well lessen no matter how silly you feel. Get help and know there is no shame in asking for help. No one is an island. We all need help from time to time in life.


i was bullied for a while untill i stood up for myself, and stop showing that i was afraid. fear is power to bullies, if you show no fear,they have no power.


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08-19-2008 01:50 PM
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Whoops I typed it wrong "I was never in exams" should be "I was confident in exams".


lol Its OK, I did get what you meat after a bit of confusion to myself


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i was bullied for a while untill i stood up for myself, and stop showing that i was afraid. fear is power to bullies, if you show no fear,they have no power.


That is so true

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I did get "bullied" in some ways. Probably not in the most common ways.
Physically, no one would really bully me. I was a pretty big guy and worked out.
Plus, I could be angry at the flip of a switch.
People are generally afraid of the quiet guy in the corner who often looks angry.

But there was this one girl. She would do provocative things in order to get a "rise" out of me.
She had no interest in me. She was just doing it to make me the laughing stock in the class.
But meh...


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08-31-2008 02:47 AM
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You bully someone at my school and you get grief from me...that is the now!!!!!!

I can't help you with the past...sorry.


Sometimes I wonder about my life.

I lead a small life, well valuable but small. And sometimes I wonder. Do I do it because I like it or because I haven't been brave?

So much of what I see reminds me of something I read in a book when shouldn't it be the other way around?

I don't really want an answer. I just want to send this cosmic question out into the void.

So, goodnight dear void.
08-31-2008 08:01 AM
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You bully someone at my school and you get grief from me...that is the now!!!!!!

I can't help you with the past...sorry.


They should be moor teachers with that attitude cos some of them if not a lot of them to what I remember think its all apart of growing up. Well - I Guss some of it is. But it can have a very detrimental affect on someone. No bulling should be tolerated and kids or adults should not be afraid of any one, or afraid, or ashamed of asking for help. Asking for help and getting the help was my problem. mainly cos I felt ashamed of the fact that I was getting bullied. Now I realise that I should not had been. If only I know what I know now, then Rolleyes

08-31-2008 09:54 AM
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