Being in love is the superior feeling a person could have.
I think that being in love is not standing and looking at each other...but looking IN THE SAME DIRECTION.
For that, my dear angeLL, I think that you must feel the love with the person you love at the same time.
I think that LOVE is the feeling that deliberates you from loneliness and gives you a GREAT chance to have somebody to Share your Love (*for me LOVE means very much> there is what to share in this feeling), for Me love gives me a chance to think positive, to feel free inside (*because i know that somebody could help and support me always), LOVE is the greatest feeling a person could have.





P.S. " * love is in the air... "

All this stuff:

Love is kind
Love is not jeleous....

I know there is much more to it.... but I have to honestly say I have never felt love where I was not feeling at least a little jelous and I don't always feel like being so "kind".

hey,

i wonder about that too - whats that saying - its better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all? sorry, but i think i could much rather have lived without the heartache!!

I feel so lonely and I feel sometimes too that the right person could make my life seem so complete, and then i think back to all the relationships ive had, and i remember that I ended up relying on the current boyfriend to do that for me NEVER worked, and it was pretty unfair to him (after all, how would you feel if you were responsible for someone elses happiness?)

Despite feeling so lonely, I have to remind myself that being happy and complete is my responsibility, and no one elses. I want to be happy, and I know you do too, so maybe for now, just forget finding "the guy" and focus on how you can complete you (so there, Jerry Maguire!!)

Love can do both,it can save you or it can make you more lonely.Its a matter of finding the right person,someone that not only understands you and you them but you feel at ease being honest with.If you end up with someone that you feel you can't tell things to,things that might be painful or embarassing to you for fear of what they will think,in the end it will remind you of how alone someone can be even if they have that speical someone.Its a matter of finding someone that you can truly be yourself with,that can be themselves with you,someone you can truly see as a partner in life.I certainly hope to find that speical woman,I could lie and say I will stop dreaming of that but a lie it would be.

I have maybe a different take on this. Maybe asking love to save us from loneliness or making things worse; maybe we need to look at whether or not that is too big of a demand to put on love.

I think it might be more effective if we can love fully the person we hope to get in our life without asking them to curse our loneliness or remove it. That is ours alone to deal with or ignore. In fact, that might be too big of a demand on love when you consider all the other unconditional demands we place on it.

I don't know that when I love someone I expect to be their cure for anything. I have never much thought about it. I suppose I expect to love them fully and support them as the person they are. I don't know; I am going to have to think more on that.

And yes, to the people who have never loved...I understand why you can't believe those of us who have and have lost and never want to feel that badly ever, EVER again. I want you to have love...just never have the heartache. You will have to bear with the rest of us; we just got crushed badly at one time in our lives when we thought it was forever.