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can love save us from loneliness or it can make us even more lonely?
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can love save us from loneliness or it can make us even more lonely?

in my oppinion, i think love can be the answer to a lot of us, the problem is just to find the right person to love us, see us for the real us and really help us...this is what i want the most....to find a boy that could really see me..not just my skills or my image created by others...the gossip the others tell about me...
what is your situation?

03-26-2007 02:17 AM
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That is true, I know how some people say it's worse when you love and break up, but if you've never been in a relationship, how do you know, right? I guess it's just that a lot of us here haven't been meeting the right people.

To be absolutely honest, I would say that finding the right guy, like you angeLLblueshadow, is likely to solve my problem. But then, I don't know when that's going to happen so i'm trying to make the most of my single life Smile

03-26-2007 05:45 AM
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I believe love can save us from loneliness. Its just really hard to love and sometimes we think its just not worth the effort.

04-02-2007 05:17 AM
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They say it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!
I dont really agree though, i say if you have never loved that deeply then you dont know the pain of such a loss, you cant be hurt by what you dont know!
Love can save you if the two people are truly in love, or love each other enough to get through good and bad together, but the worst love is unrequited, it can kill youSad
Love is special but it is only wonderful if the person your with makes it feel wonderful, you are only half alive unless, you love truly.
If you have never been loved then how can you know what your missing, it is indeed far worse to have loved, as it takes a part of you, almost destoying your soul with it, and you find it very hard to ever open your heart and love that true again.
But time is a great healer, and love gradually has a way of making you feel you are worth a lot to someone againSmile
If you are yet to feel such a love then time, and experiences you hear from others, shall better prepare you on the best way to be when you find your true love, or just even feel love for someoneBig Grin
Love is a beautiful thing it makes you feel not alone, depending on if that person completes you, really even with love, you must also find
contentment, then im sure most of us would be truly happyWink

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I believe love can save us from loneliness.  Its just really hard to love and sometimes we think its just not worth the effort.

04-02-2007 06:23 AM
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Sometimes breaking up with a loved one is more painful than if they passed away (not that I wish death on anyone). I have a tough time dealing with the rejection I feel from my husband. I think about how happy we used to be and try to figure out what and where it all went so wrong. How can two people start out being so in love - and end up in a hateful relationship? There was a time when we couldn't stand to be away from each other - now we can't stand to be together. Well, I actually still am very much in love with him and need to be with him.. But it is he who would rather not be around me.

04-11-2007 12:47 PM
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I agree 100% if my ex died while she still loved me...i would have felt better but to know I messed alot of things up and she didn't love me anymore hurts like hell..to hear the she was happier after 4 months with her new b/f than all the time ( 7 years) we were together..like a knife in your heart...

04-11-2007 12:54 PM
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Oh, I hate that! It reminds me of a double edged sword - you want her to be happy even though it hurts like hell. I don't wish bad things on her - but I do have to say this... She may seem happier right now because she is in a new relationship... You know - the "honeymoon" phase. I'm sure she was just as happy when the two of you first got together.

04-11-2007 01:12 PM
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that was along time ago...it's been about 2 years..she moved to another state to marry her b/f after being together about 1 year..

04-11-2007 05:42 PM
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RE: can love save us from loneliness or it can make us even more lonely?

angeLLblueshadow Wrote:
in my oppinion, i think love can be the answer to a lot of us, the problem is just to find the right person to love us, see us for the real us and really help us...this is what i want the most....to find a boy that could really see me..not just my skills or my image created by others...the gossip the others tell about me...
what is your situation?


i totally understand.. love is a wonderful thing that can lift us up into the light and save us from the darkness that withheld us..
i reckon that there is a person for everyone out there, you just gotta go look for them..not wait and see if they find you. everybody deserves love..
i hope everybody who enters this site finds love

04-16-2007 11:32 AM
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i have loved deeply , i gave him my whole heart completely we couldnt stand to spend any time apart and now we barely talk ,he has a part of my sol i feel dead and numb i feel widowed ,hes alive but might as well be dead ,he was taken from me suddenly one day he loved me the next he blocked me out of his heart.i will never be whole again.love can save you from lonliness when we were together i was happy as long as he loved me,when he took away his love al y insecuritys and fears tripled ,made me think what is so wrong with me tat he left me when i was happy for the 1st time?what is wrong with me i cant have love in my life?

04-16-2007 11:11 PM
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