| can the internet satisfy your social needs? |
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CakeFace Junior Member   Posts: 9 Group: Registered Joined: Apr 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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| RE: can the internet satisfy your social needs?
no. i have about 70,000 friends on myspace. it doesnt satisfy me. i feel totally empty and dead inside.
i think the amount of myspace friends i have, is to somewhat overcompensate for how little REAL friends i have. |
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| 04-07-2008 03:47 PM | |
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DemonsInside The Light in the Dark.    Posts: 27 Group: Registered Joined: Apr 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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| RE: can the internet satisfy your social needs?
No, i dont think its enough to satisfy but cause of the internet i met people i would never ever!!!! meet in my real life. People from other countries, culture, social status? (i dont know how to say that in english, sorry), age, etc. One of my friends would make me turn around and start running and another one i would never talk twice. I would never know that i would have something in common to them. One of them i already met and thats the cool part of this new "social life". We meet people, we make new friends and, the good ones, can easily become "real life" friends. Btw, like kyle (the one that would make me run, scared) likes to say, internet friends (not just dudes), are real friends, we are just far from the other (duh!). Its like talking on the phone... Btw, theres nothing better than go meet someone that you already know sooo pretty well and you feel so confortable with and all of that so, if you can do that, just wait the next vacation and go see them or invite them to your house. This is tough.. but I would say yes to a certain extent..If you have developed some friendships with people on the net then yes..but I think still face to face contact is best.. I've met quite a few people from the net..and it seems like now in retrospect they all had something they wanted to keep hidden.. could have just been a bad pick, but eventually their true side comes out in real life and it can be very very hard to talk to someone and connect emotionally when we were once safe and hidden behind this screen.. It's a coin toss really.
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| 04-17-2008 02:37 PM | |
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Einsam Junior Member   Posts: 19 Group: Registered Joined: Feb 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
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| RE: can the internet satisfy your social needs?
Some of the best friends I've ever had have been online friends. It's good because you actually have stuff in common with them. Like, I probably have a lot more in common with everyone on this site than with the people at my school. The friends I find online are more... "fitting" for me. I'm so thankful for them. They actually talk to me! I used to feel lonely all the time, but now, hardly ever-- basically never. They filled the space inside me. It's good, because now I feel... 'satisfied'. But, at the same time, I'm worried that this satisfaction will prevent me from going out and making friends in real life. And we need friends in real life... who am I going to go shopping with? Who will I celebrate my birthday with? I could do it online, but then I'd never leave the house! I already don't, but still. I hope to leave it one day. This post was last modified: 04-19-2008 01:43 AM by Einsam. |
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| 04-19-2008 01:41 AM | |
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Minus Freak       Posts: 2,670 Group: Registered Joined: Apr 2008 Status: Offline Reputation
MyMood: None Points: 234.20 [View Inventory] | RE: can the internet satisfy your social needs?
While there are some really great people that i value highly, that i only know through the internet, if i was to ever actually satisfy my social needs it would require at least a small amount of some form of face to face contact. |
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| 04-21-2008 03:36 PM | |
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Kristen Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
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DemonsInside, what an awsome avatar,piece of art. where do u get them? I'll need this one for a different forum maybe when ur done  |
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| 04-23-2008 12:05 AM | |
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