Solus11, I would have to agree with the other members' posts and say that your messages are overstepping the boundaries, especially if these are girls you do not know well. Whilst your intention may be to create humour, it may not be interpreted the way you intend for it to be. Rather it may seem that you are weird and/or desperate which is not what you want to convey. I think you should perhaps take a more subtle approach and definitely try to interact with them in person as opposed to via SMS (text message).

May I ask why you find the need to specifically try to date Caucasian women? If they not willing to consider you because of your race, I doubt getting a nose lift would make any difference, to them, you're still going to be as Asian as you ever were. You wouldn't want someone who'd decide whether a person is a suitable partner purely through skin colour anyway. I would say that asking a stripper for advice is definitely not the way to go, I won't elaborate further... However, seeing that I'm in the same situation as you, an Asian guy who's never even had as much as a kiss, maybe my advice isn't particularly accurate.

This post was last modified: 05-15-2008 10:36 PM by sans_syd.

So solus I pm you but you never respond back, nevertheless I am too an Asian guy. And I can tell you the myth that White girl are not attracted to Asian guy is BS. I'm almost 20 never been kiss as well, but I know most girl have no problem with the fact that your Asian, it just your thinking that is making you fear your luck.

Yes I know Asian girl can get any guy they want as oppose to us Asian guy. Hell I don't think anything of this crap is fair. Even my sister could get the hottest Caucasian guy if she wanted to, but for some reason white girls are not attracted to Asian guys, so because of that your just gonna give up?

yea i was going to say that. They will tell u anything u want to hear for an extra dollar..lol

Yup...I went to a couple places on a friend's birthday once...never again. I prefer to spend my money on me or someone that actually cares about me. I guess I'm just funny that way.

Oh man I guess it's time to behave. Anyway, I can't get over this girl. I'm so attracted to her. Yes, I scared her away and I told her I love her via text messages. I'm such a goofball, too much comedy. If there's a way I can fix this, I will do it ASAP. I think I fell in love easily because I fantacize her too much. I don't want to get into details but you can picture that. You know what I mean. Should I text her again like "I'm such a comedian to you LOL, I'll leave you alone."?

I'm clubbing tonight. You're advices are helpful, but the downside is I have to restart my personality. I don't know what to do but I want to score. I now fear approaching women. I don't want to scare em or make myself look like a fool, creepy and weird. But, I'm definitely clubbing.

One more thing, I'm still getting a nose job. I have decided. I feel I'm not physically attracted to them. I am a risk taker. I'm trying to achieve a supermodel look. I work out, getting my muscles toned.

Oh boy, I feel awkward now. The way I pick up women, it's extreme. LOL

I'm like a machine or some type of species trying to understand humans. I have to restart my personality. I'm tired of scarying them away.

Oh I forgot, I met this girl long ago but we don't see each other much. Anyway, we met again 2 days ago. I talked about my new job and I am working 7 days a week (gotta pay my nose job). I told her if she's interested in Environment Management operated by the government. I told her she might fit in that job because she's an anthropology major and I work with geologies, archeologists and so on. She said my new job looks cool. I asked her for her number and she gave it to me. I told her I will give the website to apply. So far I haven't done it. I don't want to show that I am desperate. Am I doing the right thing? Another girl I am attracted to......LOL

I told her I will give the website to apply

whats that?

if u dont do what u promised...no one will take u seriously.

looks dont matter...if u cant prove ur a man worth someones attention...lol

that ninja guy has something else to him besides looks

This post was last modified: 05-18-2008 04:36 AM by Incognita.

dude i see what ur trying to do but dont hold off for too long. I mean some ppl like going out and chasing stuff they want, but some ppl are really shy. If u think that girl is even a tad on the shy side, give her that website right now , she will appreciate it .

Hey dude. I'm in a similar situation. 20 years old so I'm not far behind you age wise. I've never as much as kissed a girl either. It does hurt and I went through a really bad phase of depression last year where I couldn't even find the strength to get out of bed and look for employment. I'm almost over that now and I do have a job, but there's still a big void in my life that can only be filled by finding the love, or at least strong friendship of a sensitive, caring girl. All I can say to you is never give up hope. Keep looking, and even if you feel like you're the only guy out there with this problem, believe me, you couldn't be further from the truth.