I'm losing my insanity and becoming desperate for love and attention. I text a lot of people looking for answers. I know there is something wrong the way I socialize. I don't get women, why do they ignore me when I text them. Some of my text messages are like

"Cmon be my sister, I suck at flirting, help the lonely baby brother here. I can't find a flirting academy or school here."

"Hey (insert name), hook me up with one of your girlfriends. I wanna be a bomb digidy fantastic like Cisqo. Sing, Let me see that thooong, baby, that thong-th-thong."

I'm trying to create humors.

This really sucks, I'm an asian man trying to date caucasian girls. It seems they are not attracted to guys like me. I want to get a nose uplift to look like a caucasian or like video game character.

I'm a talkative person, and I text girls a lot. Few guys in my school (college) tell me to just ignore them and stop flirting. I joined this site because I have no where to go. I'm sad and always crying. Should I stop flirting? Everytime I flirt, I seem to annoy women and scare the hell out of them.

I fear my future. I'm 24 years old, never been kissed and still a virgin.

Should I go to a strip club, get a private dance, and ask a stripper about this problem? You know, strippers are hot maybe they could give me a dating advice.

hey man, i know of your pain. though im young, i feel as though the void in my heart only gets bigger,and no one can save me from myself. if i were you,id try to pay more attention on the good things than bad. also try being funny,not horny,and smile.i have alot af freinds that are girls, but relationship wize, not so much. hopefully youll have better luck than me.

This post was last modified: 05-09-2008 12:25 PM by hawk9007.

Solus,
I am way older than you, so my advice may not be the best, but I read your post and wanted to respond.

My feeling is that your text messages are too "flirty". Most girls I know want connection and romance to arise from a friendship. So stop looking for a 'girlfriend", and start looking for a "friend". No "hook me up" thinking. Just relax, be yourself, Asian is perfect. Nothing wrong with that. The more you just be there for people as a friend, the happier you will be. Maybe the happy people get the girls!
Good luck.
T

are u serious?
oh gosh...why they even give their #?

dont flirt like these tex messages please..ur gonna chase them away...

i think i heard about another person than wanted to hook up with bunch of prostitutes to discuss similar issue

first ask them why they are strippers...


what ever u do try not to look needy....

heya,i wouldnt send girls them kind of texts,not untill they know you abit anyway and understand ur humour,just act casual and friendly thats how the best relationships start.

Yah they will just think your creepy if you text that.

I would have to agree with those that feel that your examples of text messages are a little to extreme.

I find furting should be done face to face, as text messages can give the wrong idea. Try firting without actually saying your intentions, use body language and physical contact. If you feel like your scaring them, then stop and find a new approach.

Also dont try and sound desperate, it will never work, girls look for confidence. just dont over do it.

Hello,
Ive never had a gf or a female friend as well, however i see alot of ppl that do , and the best way to do so is just basically talk to them like they want to be talked. I mean some of them like to be complemented or some of them like you to be sincere and honest. try doing that and things will work out for you.

Maybe I haven't been in school for awhile, but I think I'll cast another vote for toning down the text messages. If it was me, I'd start off with things that were a little less suggestive and see where that goes.

You're only 24, you've just started adulthood. I wouldn't worry too much about being a virgin just yet. Besides, once you're married and have three or four kids you'll be wishing you were again...or so I've heard.

As for getting advice from strippers, I think that's an extraordinarily bad idea. I'm sure there's exceptions, but I've known some strippers (or "dancers"...whatever). The only thing they ever seemed to be interested in was the quickest path to a wallet. That's their job.