Hawk, I think she owes you an apology. I don't care what time of the month it is, it doesn't give a woman a license to act like an a$$ when a man is trying to do something nice for her.

If you had actually done something, maybe that would be different.
I wouldn't be calling her to check on her or say nice things to her. I sure wouldn't have gone back to check on her and offer her a kiss? I would have told her what she could kiss and it wouldn't have been my lips!
I would be damned if she would be getting a rose (sorry, Grundel).
If you do nice things for her, you are showing her it's ok to act like that. You are rewarding her bad behavior for being disrespectful to you. It's not ok to be that way. Your not the enemy, your her boyfriend. You deserve respect. ALL of you deserve respect. It's ok to have personal boundaries. And it doesn't mean you love someone less because you refuse to be treated like crap. Sorry, Hawk, if this isn't what you wanted to hear.

do you actualy think i stood thare and took this bullshit. i may not seem like a very angry person, but if you do piss me off, ill be damned if im going to take that shit.hell my own mother dosnt yell at me because ill fight back. i yelled back at her. although it probily didnt do much. i dont sit back and take shit, not my style, i fight back. besides, we both agreed that things got out of hand we apologized, and decided it best to just pretend the entire thing never happend. now im just hopeing she'll come over sometime this week. its not over between us or anything. so im still happy.kindof,i just hope that then next time i see her things will go back to normal.

This post was last modified: 07-31-2008 12:57 PM by hawk9007.

Hawk,
I must have misunderstood...lol Sorry about that. My bad.
Please forgive the misunderstanding and I hope things turn out the way you want them too.

(((((((((((((((((Hawk)))))))))))))))))))))))))

**note to self: Don't assume anything**

This post was last modified: 07-31-2008 01:14 PM by Naleena.