isnt that the goal. lol think about it this way, the deeper the wound, the more you go numb.

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This post was last modified: 06-20-2008 05:23 PM by Qui.

Firstly any one that makes fun of someone because they cut is a very sad individual in deed.

People cut because it releases the pain they feel. When the blood flows out its like there pain goes with it to what I understand.

Its looked at seriously because the cuts can get infected and cause big problems for you health wise. Even to have a limb amputated has been known. Plus most people would hide the cuts because there ashamed of what there doing. psychological this can course moor damage. I.E In summer you would still be wearing a baggy top or trousers when most other people would be wearing shorts and a short sleeved top. This can make a person not wont to go out because friends and family would ask them about this.

It certainly would not give you any moor confidantes to face the world as your self.

You also risk the fact that you might cut into a main archery and die.

The thing is this dose not make anything better. maybe for the first few minutes that its been done it would but then you still have the same problems and you have an extra cut you just did. Every time you cut you add one moor problem to your life.

Get help fined a doctor and start telling people that your in pain and you could do with some help.

I know its not always this easy. But if your cutting its not practical to carry on. You well need to do something about it sooner or later.

(((HUGS)))

When your ready to Share we well be here.

I didn't realise how common cutting is, I've been on other websites and there have been posts regarding this thread.

Cutting seems to me no different from anorexia, bulima ecetera. I know someone with bulima, I tried to help by telling some close friends of ours but the person in question who was skinny anyway wouldn't give up, he'd been an overweight child when young. Just like cutting, there are reasons that are unable to comprehend, I guess the only thing is to give support.

Well, I can't say for sure, but I wouldn't think that to go deep enough to murder yourself would be the goal, now would it??
It's all about dulling the pain of one thing, by increasing the pain of something else, namely your body.

smooches... xoxo

Eve

Thanks Bluey, I'm just not sure where to draw the line between acceptable sharing and saying too much.

Well sometimes we have to just get it out there what ever is bothering us.

But I would normally advice anyone not to post anything there going to regret. I mean posts and even threads can be deleted. But we can not control how many ppl would see them first and we are unable to delete things from peoples brains as ye now.

You could use PM to anyone you like on here. but again if they tell other ppl there is nothing that anyone can do about that. We did have on person on here that was complaining cos she PM'd someone about some stuff and the person she told stuff to was telling other ppl. she wonted us to bane that person. we could not as that person had done nothing wrong. So again if anyone wants to keep stuff privet but still needs to talk to someone then I would always advice you get to know a person first. this way you can be a better judge on how trustworthy a person is.

And of course your always moor then welcome to PM me or any of the moderators. Not even another moderator wold tell me or any of us what gets said in a PM.

oww me babbling again lol

I did it my freshman year in Highschool when all my former friends abandoned me and I became a loner, I had noone to talk to, to interact with. I was alone so I turned to the brand new razors in my bathroom, after a week or so I lost interest, it wasnt my thing. I am more likely to inflict pain on something else than myself, I have a self-preservation nerve that screamed at me to stop, so I did.

The Pain was never enough, and I was smart enough to never go farther than what would heal. I have a friend who used to (and as far as I know still does) cut herself, and gruesomely. She once cut so deep I thought she would bleed to death...Its not fun finding out your friends are cutting instead of coming to you and asking for help, but asking for help is pretty hard, and when your trust isnt that great it becomes impossible :/

I have never considered cutting myself but when I was younger I had a problem with my knee...so to try and get some kind of attention from my parents i used to try and cause damage to it...would hit it with a hammer...the problem was the pain would be intense...but the guilt that followed was even worse. I have since realised that this was a cry for help from me when I was 12...i didn't realise then that 25 years later I would be crying for help again.

My advice would be to try and resolve the issues you have...counsel them...face them...I am and although some days are very painful I have to believe that it will make me a stronger person.

Asking for help though is difficult...but there are many people here for you who would help.