Has anyone tried sites like eharmony and okcupid? I've been on both and it's been pretty slow. I meet people but it seems few and far between. Anyone else have this problem?

The sad part is that my area was rated one of the number one places for single guys to live....If this is number one I'm so screwed :o)

Where do you live? >_>

i live in Canada and its the same with the dating sites there,,,not too much interest cause no one piks you or when they do ,,,they ask if they can meet you with their wifes:o,,erm i am sorry i have nothing against the ones that do meet with men and wife,,,i am just not that type of person,,,,,

I have tried both. E harmony said there were no matches for me so didn't even finish with that. Been on okcupid for a while 1 person has viewed me and other then that I get a ton of mails about taking surveys.

I would use this online dating tip ,i would check out eharmory if you're seriously about dating but other site like Okcupid.The people on Okcupid are not serious about dating anyone.

I tried OkCupid. I dated a girl I met there for approximately two weeks. She turned out to be a member of a "swinger" community and apparently wanted me to join her in this activity. Since I didn't feel like having sex with the entire town just to have a girlfriend, I decided to take my leave.

I know a lot of guys would probably jump at something like this, but it just wasn't what I was looking for. I want ONE girl who only wants ME. Seems like a simple request.

Also, as someone mentioned above, a lot of the people on OkCupid aren't really there for dating. They just like to take the tests and surveys for some odd reason. Seems pretty boring to me, but whatever.

Northern Virginia

Amazing, isn't it?
Talk about giving the middle finger to the real meaning of marriage...

As sexually charged as I am, I'd pass on that kind of opportunity without hesitation.

I haven't been to a dating website, and somehow I doubt I ever will. I'm too old school, I guess.

This post was last modified: 12-27-2007 09:38 AM by jjam.

I haven't been to a dating website, and somehow I doubt I ever will. I'm too old school, I guess.

For people like me that have problems meeting people in real life, it's one of very few options.

try plentyoffish.com its a totally free dating/freind site.