lots of people congregating. people with lots of friends. fake smiles. false sympathy. delusive concerns. pretentious people. clubs. parties. mr. know-it-all. you get my drift.

I am on a Carl Jung kick today...lol You take what you can and learn from people. I believe that most people are good inside, they just lose thier way or maybe never find it. I like to have some faith in them. Have we not all done something you listed above at one time or another? If someone willfully harms another then is when I have a real problem with the situation.

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.
Carl Jung

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
Carl Jung

This post was last modified: 08-05-2008 12:17 AM by Naleena.

Sounds like church. . . .

lol. that was funny.

Yea, I've thought about this too. I do not mind or hate people with many friends, or parties,clubs, etc. What I do mind is when a person, who I've been trying to befriend with, gets sucked into those groups and choose them instead of me. I'm not saying they are bad people, it's just that I live in a different world, I can never join them. So, I'd just let them be and find people that are like myself to hang out with.

I'm always trying to make friends, and I do get alot of fake concerns, especially from girls. I can tell when someone doesn't care about me when I talk with him/her but when that happens, it just motivates me to care about that person more. I'll show the total opposite of what he/she has shown me. I'd text a person who doesn't even bother to keep my number, etc. They don't usually realize this immediately, but eventually they will when they are having a hard time, when I'm the only one who would still talk to him/her. I always get reactions like "You're worried about me?".
Also, I believe in Karma. When you do good things, good things will happen to you. If you care about people, people will care about you,.....someday...and of course, if you hate them....they will hate you. So do not Hate.

blue, if u belive in Karma, then you should study the Bhagawad Gita. there you will find lot of answers and also know about the ultimate question: why we are here

Oh? I will, thanks !

I hear ya , its all bs and I HATE IT!!! FAKE STUFF MAKES ME WANNA PUKE!!

why does alot of people think everyone is fake? I mean everyone so some degree leave who they really are at home, if you told everyone exactly what you thought, you wouldnt have many friends.

"do i look fat it this", you say "no, its fine" when your really thinking "you look fat in everything" catch my drift?

You cannot hate people for having friends, by doing so your choosing to never have friends. Instead of standing on the outside, get in there, become apart of the group.

Why do you hate partys? clubs? thats where you meet people and make friends sometimes i feel some of you want to be lonely.


I think you may expect to much from people.

This is true in my case, Porman. ANd I also expect too much from myself.