Now to start off I have no problem with people who choose to drugs.
But on with my story.
A couple of my close friends have been smoking marijuana for awhile now, its never really bothered me. But lately, thats all they have been doing. If we were leaving the house its so they could go smoke somewhere, and today we were hanging out and one wanted to buy some for home. So I get kicked out of the car so they could pick up some kid to buy from, and so they could smoke for the fourth time that day. I don't know about you but that pisses me off that they choose a drug over their friends.
I know what you mean. My best friend does the stuff with his older brother and some other people I know, they have tried countless times to get me involved but I refuse to go near the stuff, I cant stand the smell, it makes me want to gag. He will spend all day sitting on the couch after smoking some, and doesnt care that he seems to be wasting his life away. I have told him my position on the matter and besides that I dont care what he does. I tried to show him what he was doing to himself but there is only so much I can do, his girlfriend listens to me more than she does to him, and while she also does the stuff I think she has more control over it. There have been times when he chose to go hang out with HIS best friend, AKA always has pot on him and an empty house to do it in. After the first time they realized it was pointless to ask me to come along. Are drugs ruining our friendship? I believe so...I wish it wasnt though :/
I have had the same kinder things happen to me. Even one mate wonted me to drive him to this house so he could scar. I mean the house probably being watched or something by the law. I did tho a copula of times but only cos I had done weed with him a few times so I was not really in a possession to say no. I mean if am doing it I should be prepared to go buy the stuff with him. But I was not into it like him. Eventually I said am nor doing it anymore. He said well can you give me a left so I can get some. I said no. He was like well fuck you then and bye bye see you later. just like that... It always amazes me how easily ppl can just move on from being friends. Its like I meant nothing at all. I don't know if its cos I did not wont to do the weed anymore or cos it was just the kinder guy he was. But ye some ppl look at you like there something wrong cos you don't Jone in with the drug fest. Well the one thing I have never been and that's a sheep. Still be nice for ppl to actually think of a friend as a friend and not just someone to smoke or drink with.
Be glad they are only smoking pot. It could be much worse. Besides, it could be a saving grace, you have to understand "stoner" culture a little bit to kind of get it. Were they going to bake in the car? If so and you don't smoke pot, there would be no point for you to be there. Were they going to some area where they are likely to be pulled over that's known for it's drug sales? Be glad you aren't taking the risk.
If they are just being douches, get new friends. Though have they recently just been getting more into pot? IF so it's just a phase. They will take a few years but they'll be casual pot heads sooner or later instead of the obsessiveness they have now.