Expectation leads to regret. If you're highly anticipating to get along like a house of fire with everybody you meet, then you're bound to wind up disappointed when they don't share most (or all) of the qualities you are looking for in a friend. High hopes really hinder any sort of social progress, judging from my experiences.

What the...

If you don't like being around someone you are wasting your time trying to be friends with them. However, I am quite a passive person and hate to be rude or offend people by an off-hand comment or whatnot so I tend to put up with people for far longer than is really healthy for my mind... lol. I have spent the last month and a half with "leeches" sucking the fun out of my group of friends but none of us wanted to make any enemies or anything so we let the stupid underclassmen losers stay, and they recently have caused so much drama that the group has imploded. So there is an example of why you may not want to be around someone you don't like.

Yea...my point exactly, makes no sense and it's not even funny

Yeah, I have to agree with you to a degree Qui... while i am of the mind that anyone deserves a chance, there's definitely a point where enough is enough. If someone is such a drag that they are bringing you down, it's time to abandon ship... or toss them out

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This post was last modified: 11-08-2007 07:13 AM by Lost in the Oilfield.

Hehe. That ridiculous lingo of a class of internet dwellers! Your response to nevermore's statement had me laughing up a storm.

This post was last modified: 11-09-2007 10:15 AM by jjam.

Today I went out with that guy again. He kept talking about prostitutes the entire time (2+ hours), and he even showed me the place where his favorite prostitute lives. He also said that he feels like a horrible person because he had sex with a prostitute and he doesn't want to see her anymore. Then one minute after he starts talking about her again. #_# He has bipolar disorder I think.

Also we ate some kebab. He shoved the entire thing in his mouth, and all the sauce dripped on his pants and on the table. He ate the whole kebab in like 3 seconds (using his fingers to push it into his mouth deeper), and his part of the table was a mess. It's a good thing I'm not an easily disgusted person, others might have vomitted at the sight. -_- I just ate mine normally, and the table was clean after me. I told him that he eats like a pig, and he told me that I dress like a hobo, and I should wear jeans to be cool. (I decided to pass on pointing out that it's not so cool when your jeans are dripping with mayonnaise.)

Well, look on the bright side; at least you have a story to tell now ^_^

You do sound a little prickly though, even if he was a jackass. How on earth do you know him? Oh well, that shouldn't deter you from going out in the future, but you have my sympathies for the clothing remark, at least you had the guts to leave the house in your own clothing, just the thought of someone saying something like that to me in public scares me a little.

It's a shame there isn't a Lonely Life village that we could live in.

Let's make one, on one of those tiny islands to the north of Scotland.

i m lonely because i am choosy.
*bows*
where s the island? o.o