I never have befriended they type that you have described. Some people I have encountered are like that, but I always kept my distance. If I did, they wouldn't see me again after I let them know that I think they are messed up in the head.

These are people that get a "high" or "rush" from doing the things they do. They will also state such idiotic lies to get your attention. I honestly think these type of people are dangerous and I always get some weird vibe from those types.

This post was last modified: 08-16-2008 07:19 AM by DayvanCowboy.

Thanks guys, everybody of you gave me such powerful insights.
I guess Steel has written something really interesting here. I must admit that I am able to discern indeed when I am being manipulated, but most of the times I let such people try to manipulate me because after all I feel I am sure I will never believe what they say. Often I let them believe that they have convinced me, pretending to be interested in what they say. They seem to be always aware of this; which fact is proved by their disappearance as they see that I understood the game they are playing.

People come and gone out of myself for many reasons.
It's not such as bad thing when bad people disappear from my life.

What's screwie is when you love someone or are in a long term
relationship with someone.( Bascailly your family member.)
You're bound with morals and are emotionally attach to that person.
In my case my ex-gf was an alcoholic. She didn't start drinking
until after 5 years into the relationship. I was conforted with some
crazy, insance three headed green eyes monster that came out of no where.
I wouldn't mind it so bad, if she drink and be happy without causing chaso
in our lives..She was a crazy mean drunk that bascailly destroyed everything.
All the lies, munipulations, head games..you name it.
Bacailly your emotions will get drag through the mud and then some.
You can't make rational decisions when you're emotionally attach.
Even if you did..it's a test of will becuase the person is not just some
casual friend. You love this person very much...it's a damn heart break everytime.
You know it's bad...you know you're being manipulated.
You have some crazy faults hope or try to see it through.
And you get religiouse and pray a lot too.lol

Love is Blinde...you know what I'm saying ?

This post was last modified: 08-20-2008 12:40 AM by Lonesome Crow.

I thought false friends are people who gains your trust and uses you till the end then leaves you when you aren't useful anymore. I think anyone with any kind of strong craving/want are like that ( that includes power ).

I think these people are also emotionally detached with the relationships they form. Lets be clear though, just because someone is emotionally detached doesn't mean they are using you.

I think ignorant friends who abandon friends in time of need then rationalize their actions afterwards are just as bad as false friends.

Yupe, I had some. There were false friends in y life and they actually betrayed me. That was not feel good I tell you. But that was good that I knew the truth earlier. Now I have only close friends that won't betray me.

most "charming" people are usually putting on a show. In my experience the easier people make friends the more mean they actually are. you have to be superficial to make a good first impression.

Maybe. But maybe them ppl that make friends so easily have to many friends and try and spread themselves out to thin. Inadequately if you make to many friends then there is going to be some ppl that get let down. kinder like being a victim of your own popularity. Well-I Guss its like this for some lucky ppl out there.

I guess thats true. if you can make friends easily why would you value one, who is so easily replaceable

I agree. Some people I know who have lots of friends don't really have 'best' or 'life long' friends. They just jump from group to group and never ever feel a true connection of a certain type of closeness for them to really be comfortable with the ones that they socialize with.