What helps alleviate your pain when you feel so alone? Or I mean, do you guys ever felt that nagging pain of wanting someone to talk to?... but for some invalid or irrational reasons, you just cant?... how did you deal with it?
I feel it every day. Is there any other feeling at all?
When I was a kid and my folks would go somewhere for the weekend, I literally had no one to even send a message to, just to see how they are and what's new, let alone ask someone to come over and hang out.
I feel it every day. Is there any other feeling at all?
When I was a kid and my folks would go somewhere for the weekend, I literally had no one to even send a message to, just to see how they are and what's new, let alone ask someone to come over and hang out.
I thought it would change with time.
And it did. Now I'm used to it.
I don’t know if I could ask someone to hang out with in the middle of the week…everyone seemed to be very busy,,, except for me here…
U know, if there’s a way that I could just get used to this feeling and be able to deal with it with a happy face and a blissful heart everyday, I would…but I guess loneliness and being alone had only one facet….
I immerse myself in video games and music even more so than normal. It's not very effective
I’ve indulged myself with that too…
But have u felt that no matter what we do, it’s just keeps getting worse?
were u able to surpass it?
Yes, it's a phase or a process though. It dosn't happen overnite. I keep bussy or stay active so I don't sit and wonder about it. Sometimes I just go for a little walk to get my mind out in open space and not the 4 walls. Just to clear my mind. It's little changes in my routine , nothing major so it's not a shock or drastic.
I immerse myself in video games and music even more so than normal. It's not very effective
I’ve indulged myself with that too…
But have u felt that no matter what we do, it’s just keeps getting worse?
were u able to surpass it?
Yes, it's a phase or a process though. It dosn't happen overnite. I keep bussy or stay active so I don't sit and wonder about it. Sometimes I just go for a little walk to get my mind out in open space and not the 4 walls. Just to clear my mind. It's little changes in my routine , nothing major so it's not a shock or drastic.
I immerse myself in video games and music even more so than normal. It's not very effective
I’ve indulged myself with that too…
But have u felt that no matter what we do, it’s just keeps getting worse?
were u able to surpass it?
Yes, it's a phase or a process though. It dosn't happen overnite. I keep bussy or stay active so I don't sit and wonder about it.
yeah...i’ve kept myself busy too b4, pushing those thoughts away...but then, i cant stop myself thinking and feeling terrible about it lately...and since people have always known how strong and how i keep my composure up most of the time, no one even tried to check me up if i was ok, or at least, still ok…
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