I'm not a lesbien but, I do have some lesbien and gay friends. It's nice to see there is openess and friendship here regardless of a persons sexual orientation.

Well as I say I think every one is a little bit gay. I mean if where being honest with ourselves. Every one should feel free to love and express that love in any way they like just as long as no one is getting hurt I really don't see the problem.

I can remember having some thoughts about it a long time ago now when I was at school. Me and my best mate, well we was watching a bit of the naughty stuff and did what lads do. We did not touch each other but we did have a good look at one another. I can remember having some very mixed feelings about this and of course there was no way at the time I was going to say anything to any one. Now of course I know that am not gay and was just interested to see that I was the same as my friend. I think its probably a thing that a lot of ppl do. Just not every one would be so honest about it. And Guss what I learned from this experience. I learned that I was normal, Well kinder off lol

im 22 and gay
though i really havent experienced it much
im not really seeking a relationship, and i dont make friends based on theri sexuality
i have a couple gay friends, but whatever

like the poster above
i feel that everyone is bisexual in some ways
there are women who emotionally ive connected well enough with to date
as well as guys
granted women's bodies arent my thing, i think mentally we are all capable of more than we allow our selves

Welcome here Aaron

I have to agree that we are all much moor capable of what we allow are self's. A good thing I always do be for I do anything am unsure of is ask my self if am going to regret this. If the answer is yes then I normally would not do it. Well sometimes I would as I do believe it better to regret the things you have done then the things you have not done. But I dont like anything interfering with my beauty sleep lol So if its going to stop me from sleeping I normally would re-consider Know what I mean. This is how I assess if am going to regret something lol I am happy to say that I have not got many regrets in life. No big ones anyway I would regard myself as an open mined chap. Well I think most ppl would actually think that of them self. I have never heard any one call them self Nero mined. I think where only as open minded as another person would assess us.

Welcome here Aaron

I have to agree that we are all much moor capable of what we allow are self's. A good thing I always do be for I do anything am unsure of is ask my self if am going to regret this. If the answer is yes then I normally would not do it. Well sometimes I would as I do believe it better to regret the things you have done then the things you have not done. But I dont like anything interfering with my beauty sleep lol So if its going to stop me from sleeping I normally would re-consider Know what I mean. This is how I assess if am going to regret something lol I am happy to say that I have not got many regrets in life. No big ones anyway I would regard myself as an open mined chap. Well I think most ppl would actually think that of them self. I have never heard any one call them self Nero mined. I think where only as open minded as another person would assess us.

haha thanks for the welcome
boredom brought me but browsing around here its kinda interesting..lotta like minded ppl
but yeah i consider myself regret free, simply because i choose not to waste any of my energy on regret, rather just learn and move on
plus if i did actually allow myself to regret things, id go insane lol

That is a healthy way to look at life I mean we do not get anything out of beating our self up over things we or another has done. Best to do as you say learn and move on with the next step that little moor wise hopefully then be for.

You should post around the forum or we have a chat room if you fancy an instant chat.

So you ever had a GF/BF? What you into if anything? some ppl here like games. (Like playstation wii act)

But ye boredom can be a killer I know this lol drive you insane it can. Well the computer is good for me, that be killing that off lol

You ever go clubbing where you live. I have never been to a gay club but I hear its like well better then the straight ones. I would go for the experience if I had the Chance though.

But ye you should post around and maybe make a thread in the introductions if you like. There are a lot of cool ppl here

Well, I'm not against gays and I don't want that to offend someone, but I think that homosexuality is... it is damn unnatural! I mean we are created by nature so that we can produce life only with an opposite gender and having relationships with the same gender is... well... wrong. Maybe I'm just conservative. However I translated manga (japaneese comics) about gays.

Last autumn one girl (she also translated manga about gays) gave my photo to her friend who was gay and then told me that he liked me and that he wanted to meet me

Bluey, I don't really think that everyone is a bit bi. Well, I think some people are like that, but not all, not even most. Well, that's just what I think

I don't really see what the issue is...everyone is open to live their lives as they see fit. It is not up to any of us to judge anybody. Unfortunately we have a society that prouds itself on judging others.

I know loads of different people who are straight, gay, bi, black, asian, white...you name it.

So what!! If you need to pass comment on someone who is different to you then think again. You are as equally racist and biggot as the next person.

Bluey, I don't really think that everyone is a bit bi. Well, I think some people are like that, but not all, not even most. Well, that's just what I think

So there never was a time where you asked yourself that personal question? To come to the conclusion that you could never be gay you most have first thought about it.

I mean its not gay to wonder if you have the same as another guy. That just means you wont to know your no different to other guys. But when your young that can be confusing.

Well I think what is natural is for a person to wont to feel loved and I think that is what nature intended. For us to feel loved.

That is a healthy way to look at life I mean we do not get anything out of beating our self up over things we or another has done. Best to do as you say learn and move on with the next step that little moor wise hopefully then be for.

You should post around the forum or we have a chat room if you fancy an instant chat.

So you ever had a GF/BF? What you into if anything? some ppl here like games. (Like playstation wii act)

But ye boredom can be a killer I know this lol drive you insane it can. Well the computer is good for me, that be killing that off lol

You ever go clubbing where you live. I have never been to a gay club but I hear its like well better then the straight ones. I would go for the experience if I had the Chance though.

But ye you should post around and maybe make a thread in the introductions if you like. There are a lot of cool ppl here

nope i had a bf for a while, it blew up pretty badly..only lasted a month though and i was alot younger and was not ready 4 relationships
Gaming, im into that
WoW/TF2/Hellgate junkie here
and no, i hate the gay community of my city
if ur not a druggy/super hot/gossip queen you dont fit in and get nothing out of it
ive been a few times and had fun, but at hte same time i didnt
hard to explain

edit: woot posted my intro
http://www.alonelylife.com/hi2u-t-3164.html

This post was last modified: 06-16-2008 08:56 AM by Aaron85.