By "hitting" on someone, I'm thinking like, asking for someones phonenumber. Or is just talking to a stranger these days considered hitting on someone? C'mon, that's harsh

Thank you both. In my ignorance i would think there would be a big difference between asking for a phone number and asking to go home with someone. While i have never asked a stranger for a phone number and doubt that i ever would, it would seem like a way to not lose contact with someone you may never run across again. Still not expecting anything except maybe the chance to get to know someone a little better from chatting.

It is not a situation that i find myself in and bow to the wisdom that do have to deal with that situation because they know what makes them feel uncomfortable and what is just asking for trouble.

Oh heck, on second thought i can see very good reasons for not giving out a number to someone you don't know well.

Obviously i just don't know this type stuff.

I will never hit on a girl. Way too shy, but it sucks because girls aren't hitting on me either, so I dunno what the hell to do.

Well you don't have to hit on them. just go and start making friendly talk. Oh is that the same? lol Well talk to them like you would a guy, well not just how you would a guy lol. So OK is it possible for a guy to go access to where a girl is and just start making friendly talk with out her thinking that your some n00b just trying to get into her knickers?

Yeah, but even if you're playing it off as friendly talk you'll eventually have to ask her out or else stay in the friend zone.

Ye you don't wont to get trapped in the friend zone lol This happens all to often. well I do think if there is chemistry there its going to happen eventually whether or not you wont to stay friends.

I've been hit on a few times... (if you count asking me out by strangers as 'hit on') :S If I'm interested in someone (whenever that day comes..=_=;, I'd probably write a love letter and include my number or email. :3 xD I'm too shy to say words.. So yeah. It might be cheesy but at least I get my message through.

im cheesy like that too
passin notes and stuff like that
i guess its cuz ive been tied down for almost a decade and i only remember high school flirting
*sigh* whatever