Everyone has their reasons for being mean/bitchy/assholish be it male or female. People just infect each other, I guess that is why maybe it's getting worse and more common, making people believe that ALL of something is soo bad.
I know it's hard, but we can CHOOSE to not let the "bad" and "hurtful" things affect us in a negative way. What good does it do anyway, thinking and thinking, dwelling on things we can't change. Not all people are "bad". The only thing a person can do I guess is to keep searching for the "good" if that's what they really need to fulfil their happiness. Don't give up just because you've come across a few assholes/bitches, anyone who hasn't come across one in this day and age is EXTREMELY lucky.
Everyone has their reasons for being mean/bitchy/assholish be it male or female. People just infect each other, I guess that is why maybe it's getting worse and more common, making people believe that ALL of something is soo bad.
I know it's hard, but we can CHOOSE to not let the "bad" and "hurtful" things affect us in a negative way. What good does it do anyway, thinking and thinking, dwelling on things we can't change. Not all people are "bad". The only thing a person can do I guess is to keep searching for the "good" if that's what they really need to fulfil their happiness. Don't give up just because you've come across a few assholes/bitches, anyone who hasn't come across one in this day and age is EXTREMELY lucky.
Well said. With advice like that I hope to see you post again. That actually got me thinking about some stuff that's recently happened in my life.
That was good advice.
i agree that all this hatred towards the other gender is useless. All it produces is a division, a breakdown in human communication.
I mean I personally have grievances against men; but...I dont think it does any good to say those grievances. In the end we are all human.
I think this quote by Dostoyevsky sums my opinion up nicely:
" Is the most important thing about Julius Caesar, about Peter the Great, about you dear reader, the way in which we do not differ from other people?"
-Dostoyevsky
"Have the courage to live, anyone can die."
- Robert Cody
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" Sadness too shall pass."
- Chuch T. Falcon
I find it amazing that people can just hate something so focused. I mean if I see something wrong I can see its cause I can see it spreading I can see how utterly disappointing it is. I can see the odds are it wont change. And if it does change does it even deserve to improve? Shouldn't whatever it is suffer or pay for the price of whatever it has done. If I could be so lucky to be so simple minded as to just only see the flaws of one person, or one gender but instead I see the flaws of humanity. And it disappoints me to no end, every day having to deal with the limitations of society, and the normal. Watching others aim to be normal, rather then great. And finally just accepting that they aren't even worst the effort and just giving up on it all.
If I had the option to live forever in misery, and loneliness, or to live a happy life with a definite end. I think I would take the first option.