I've decided instead of settling on this loneliness I am going to try to be a little more proactive about things. I wanted some input though. Where does everyone think I'll have the best shot at running into my other half? I'm a 23-year-old college grad living alone if that matters. Gotta start focusing my efforts. Thanks.

i said online dating...cause i think it wouldnt be bad to try..you never know (you know) but you could meet her anywhere..i guess my advise would be to do the stuff that you like n when n oppertunity comes around speak up...if you like book clubs the yea join one..if you like bars, go....do the stuff in your list that you enjoy and feel comfortable and confident doing

if all the stuff you like dont really include people..then find ways to make them more social..like if you like to read..book club or if you like video games check out forums that talk about those stuff or go to the conventions they have sometimes about those stuff or invite people over to play and turn it into a lime like..once in a while...

but yea..just be social and be yourself and you'll find her....remember waiting is the hardest part! Well sorta...lol

I think Jales said it best. I recommend online dating as well though because at least then you know you the others are interested in finding a mate as well. But then again getting good at meeting and talking to people around you would definitely make it much easier for you to meet people without too much effort, if you think you can get good at it (sorry long sentence).