I think what you should do is be honest with your feelings. In other words yes I do think you should tell her. Also if she decides that shes having nothing further to do with you cos of it then at least you can put an end to the terminate your feeling. Seems your real stuck on this girl. Well it can't be much fun knowing she is not yours. Say how you feel, ask that if she dose not wont to be your GF that you hope she understands that you needed to be honest to her cos you could not bear hiding it no longer and that you hope she well still be your friend if nothing else. This is what I would do anyway.
That's the thing. If I tell her and I know she doesn't want to be more than friends than I have decided not to talk to her as a friend anymore, which is probably going to make me even more depressed, but help me in the long run.
If you tell her and she is not interested in being no moor then friends could you not still be her friend? If you like her then am sure you would still wont that. But I do get you. As long as your talking to her friends or not then your never going to move on. Only you can decide whether or not you can handle just being friends. one way or another you need to sort it. So if you don't say anything you well never know. Better that it ends sooner rather then later. That way you save your self the pain of it later. Then you are able to start looking for others.
No, I couldn't just be her friend. That's what I'm acting like now & it's killing me inside. I want more, so if it doesn't work out the way I wanted I'd rather not have her at all & try to forget it.
i'd suss out how close this girl is to her boyfriend first. if she's head over heels in love with him, then its probably best that you don't tell her, since its likely she'll reject you which will be really terrible for you and make you feel even more shit than you feel now.
if they have cracks in they're relationship then tell her and sweep her off her feet.
That's the thing. She doesn't really seem like she's that into him. She never mentions him to me or anything.
No, she was not my first, but she's the only one I felt like I loved.
And yeah... I feel if I tell her I'm just letting all my shields down and just standing there waiting for my execution.
Hello Sixtyten,
What is it that you love about her? Can you share?
Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like its heaven on earth.
The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. -William James
Life is not lost by dying; life is lost minute by minute, day by dragging day, in all the thousand small uncaring ways. -Stephen Vincent Benet
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
No, she was not my first, but she's the only one I felt like I loved.
And yeah... I feel if I tell her I'm just letting all my shields down and just standing there waiting for my execution.
Hello Sixtyten,
What is it that you love about her? Can you share?
The energy I felt when I was with her. It was something that I had never experienced before. I couldn't describe it, but I remember when I was there and when we were taking the transit home one late night she laid her head on my shoulder and fell asleep & just then I felt so happy and just I dunno. I felt like nothing could ever go wrong in my life again at that moment.
I've never felt like that over something so simple.
No, she was not my first, but she's the only one I felt like I loved.
And yeah... I feel if I tell her I'm just letting all my shields down and just standing there waiting for my execution.
Hello Sixtyten,
What is it that you love about her? Can you share?
The energy I felt when I was with her. It was something that I had never experienced before. I couldn't describe it, but I remember when I was there and when we were taking the transit home one late night she laid her head on my shoulder and fell asleep & just then I felt so happy and just I dunno. I felt like nothing could ever go wrong in my life again at that moment.
I've never felt like that over something so simple.
I love the way you put that. The "energy" you felt. I believe in those connections that happen between two people. I love to hear stories like that. It is the little moments that steal our hearts away.
Thank you for sharing that with me
Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like its heaven on earth.
The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. -William James
Life is not lost by dying; life is lost minute by minute, day by dragging day, in all the thousand small uncaring ways. -Stephen Vincent Benet
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
When you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numb, I'm revived
Can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way
uh oh....I don't think u should tell her that. Some things are better kept untold.
I mean if she had only one dude...and u had 4-5...its a NO-NO-NO to let her know...
Well, I'm not going to tell her that of course. I was just telling you guys that none of them girls made me feel the way she did & was trying to show how much she really meant to me.
yea..i understand that. I have same feelings toward only one person out of everybody else.
I just said that in case u might decide to be very honest.
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