for you all to start making friends here
i feel like things maybe work a little slower here than im used to thats y i ask

Hi NewBirth
Well it didn't take all that long for me to start making friends here. If there is someone on the forum you think you'ld like to be friends with, why don't you just send them a PM and introduce yourself. You can send me a PM if you want.

Haha, newbirth you are right. I have been a member for 3 months and lol, well lets say, I have only made 1 friend.

A friend...What's that?

lol...whoaisme....why the pessimism?

I don't think I've ever had a true friend in all my life. I consider a true friend someone who would be there for me when I am in need and someone who won't turn around and stab you in the back. I've never met such a person in my personal life. I wish I had a person like that.

That and my comment was just plain funny.

uh oh looks like this is gonna be harder than i thought LoLoLoL since i wont pm a girl cuz im trying to stay away from them and i would never pm a guy first

Consider it this way... There's no reason not to PM a girl. I always think of them as unobtainable girls (Like out of my geographic range, my age range, my looks range, and I consider everyone already taken). That or think of them like a female cousin or something. Begin with absolutely no sexual interest whatsoever. Just shoot the breeze. I have NEVER had trouble talking to people male or female online since there is that sort of pseudo anonymity. In real life it is a totally different story.

Online, I'm not afraid to tell anybody anything. I usually tell very, very, personal details that I wouldn't even share with a therapist (if I still had one). It's not like I'm giving out my name and address, plus if you make a complete fool of yourself you can always register with another user name...

Post regularly and be nice and you well make friends

I don't come hear as often as I shod but there still is some hear I think I could be friends with moor if I made moor effete.

The problem with me is I turn the PC on and get sighed tracked to doing other stuff.

Like right know am supposed be designing a 2008 calender put in sted am reading stuff hear

I haven't been here too long but I also haven't really made any friends. My problem is the same as yours kinda... I hate to make the first move (it's one of my problems I'm working on). If I'm ever talking to a "girl" I find it way easier to just assume everyone's a guy until you hear their voice (on vent or skype). Don't trust pics either.

so ya I never go in to these things expecting to make friends, cause it seems like unless you're really an exceptional person, you will have to make the first move (online and in real life).