or maybe i cant understand them. they are so selfish and complex and materialistic that i cant stand them. im yet to find a girl who is transcendental mentally and spiritually. they ought to know that nothing is permanent. permanence is just an illusion craved by the fools. well this doesn't apply for all the girls in the world and i know that im imperfect myself. but atleast i know it. but hardcore chicks are a rare breed.
Silverblackvoid, If there is one thing I have learned in this life it is that at any given time, everyone is on a different level of learning and being. Yes, some girls are materialistic. that's where they are in their life right now. Hopefully they will learn that everything is fleeting -money, power, friendships, whatever.
We all have some sort of ingnorance about us...lol If we didn't we wouldn't be here. I guess I have learned to be patient with some people and try to see thier potiential instaed of where they are right now in their life. Ofcorse that doesn't work when looking for a significant other because (in my opinion) a person needs someone who is like them.
And it's not just girls that are selfish **giggles** Permanance is an illusion but, it's craved by a lot of people who want it to feel safe. I like having a structured life for the most part. Familiarity can be a good thing : )
I wonder where you are going to meet girls? If you are drawn to a more free flow life, perhaps you could try to meet girls in places that are more inclined to the way you believe. There are newage books, volunteer organisations, spiritual houses, etc.
There is a girl out there for you, I am sure
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The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. -William James
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If there is one thing I have learned in this life it is that at any given time, everyone is on a different level of learning and being.
Thank you Nals, a hundred hugs and kisses for that I think there are plenty of males that are just as caught up and mislead as there are females, because in the end, its not a matter of being male or female, but just human. We all have our lessons to learn and our misconceptions to break through. I find the best thing is to just do what fits you and you will find yourself in an environment and with people who share like philosophies. Stop lamenting what is lacking in people and start celebrating what they do offer and you will find that they may have more to them than you think, we are all capable of amazing things.
Some people are consious that materialism isnt everything, some people arent. And some people realize that there are better things out there and more important things. but then again all people are different, and have different priorities in life and are okay with that.
All people are different..and sometimes you have to meet the "wrong" people, to be able to know who the "right" people are. Everyone has a different sense on what is "right" and "wrong" for them, so its up to you to choose..
Does that make any sense at all? :S
"I was thinking about how disjointedly time seemed to flow, passing in a blur at times, with single images standing out more clearly than others. And then, at other times, every second was significant, etched in my mind."
"Time passes, even when it seems imposible. When each tick of the second hand aches like the pulse of blood behind a bruise, it passes unevenly in strange lurches and dragging lulls, but pass it does."
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