Party, Drinks, Meaningless sex, Drugs, Pornography, Orgys...

Thats what social people do nowdays, all that i see, seems diry and retarded to me, and i do NOT whant to be a part of any of that (im slightly alcoholic, but i only drink at him, while im alone), what can i do to make more friends, AVOIDING all that shit?

Your answears will be thanked for...

Orgies and things are the extreme excesses, so to speak. Normal people can be brash and loud without things turning into the last days of Ancient Rome.

Anyway, you don't tell us about yourself. What are your likes?

hmm I don't agree that that is all that is out there...though I know what you mean. Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places? And orgys? Where?? Just kidding.

You wouldn't happen to be in college by any chance? Hahhaa Don't get me started.

I think you may find that you are wrong about that, especially after talking to some people here. As far as sex goes this is the f-ing Mohave. Hhaha. Sorry, making myself sound like a creep.

Welcome Red Piper...cool name by the way, what was the inspiration for it?

I don't think anyone wants to become addicted to alcohol or porn. And as for the one-night stand deal, I don't think anyone really wants that, it just happens sometimes. But to completely stay away from everything you mentioned is really limiting yourself. Especially if you judge people for it. Drinking alone is the worst...just when you get the buzz on you are ready to hang out with people but there's nobody there. Unless you have interests that you are really involved in, you might have to take some more chances to meet new friends.

"Hear no evil, speak no evil - and you'll never be invited to a party" - Oscar Wilde

This post was last modified: 05-07-2008 02:15 PM by snow.

I know what you mean, I am not a party or drink type person and so I feel kind of excluded from the majority of people's socialising

Hi Red Piper

What can you do? Join things that are really not into that. I joined a gym and spend a lot of my time there now... I am on the road of getting into great shape and have hade many acquaintances while there. It's been my salvation... The thing is you need to be a fixture there... the more you are there the more you are seen, the more familiar you become and the more comfortable people are at addressing you...

Oh god I agree man i cant walk down the hall in my school without hearing people talk about sex or drugs.

Im not friends with any people that do that stuff its immature and very irresponsible.

please dont take this as me being funny... but instead of worrying about what youre against, maybe you should worry about what you're FOR?

Nice to see you pop up again Helen. You disapeared for a while.

Thing is though that if your against something maybe your for everything, but what your against.

wow, i'm surprised someone remembered me!

i get what you're saying... i just mean in this thread in general. i'm sure there are things red piper likes doing that can help him socialise.