Question I ask myself daily. Question like:

1. Can you live life without any friends and for how long?

2. Can you concentrate in school without any friends?

3. How long can u keep your sanity in this situation?

4. Can you live in the dorms for two year being friendless, and how is it that I haven't fail a single class yet?

5. What hope do you have to continue school instead off dropping out?

6. Do you believe in miracle, or would you feel like you are curse?

7. Am I crazy or emotionally strong?

8. Do you believe in moving to a lower rated school for another chance to make friends your third year in college?

9. How do you feel when so many activities, event, holidays pass you by, knowing deep down that your really missing out?

10. Lastly are you proud or ashame to be who u are?


I really think I am crazy, what do you guys think? And if you were in my shoe what would u do differently, and please answer all those question. I really don't know what to do at this point.

Thanks

Chris

If i was in your shoes... i would start making friends lol.

Making friends is EASY. the hard part is getting in a situation to be able to make friends, and since your in college, you have that in the bag. seriousy, just make friends.

I wish it was that easy

Not truely crazy, crazy.

Once a upon a time a young man tried to kill himself.
The short eversion... bascailly he thought life sucked.
He was sent into an insane asylum.
The doctors didn't really do anything to him or gave him
medications.
They just let him be.

While in the institution the young man was surrounded by
the really truely insane people. The people that couldn't
read, write nor wiped thier own ass bascailly.

The youngman had an of awakening of sort.
He relized what a gift he has. He could go out
and do anything in life and live as he wished and persuit
his dreams...becuase he wasn't crazy or had any major
set backs nor disabilities.

From that moment on he did whatever it took to follow his dreams.

It's a true story. The young man's name is BILLY JOE.
Billy Joe is one of the geartest Rock artist that ever lived and is still alive today.
He wasn't a total hunk....but i think he married a super model...

This post was last modified: 10-29-2008 07:14 PM by Lonesome Crow.

Yes, I was thinking the same thing. Not everyone fines it that easy.

I suppose its about what mind frame your in.

Your not crazy Chris. Your strong and you've had to be.

Don't move college man. That crazy. Your half way fro. Your passing everything cos actually having friends can be a distraction from your work. Sometimes this can be a good thing but most of the time its a bad thing. So at lest your passing the work and don't have to retake another year cos you where busy getting drunk every night or something.

The holidays are hard on me and am not at college so I just carry on as normal. So I think they most be herder on you.

Just gotta take one day at a time. There is non in this world that can do any differently.

I like who I am a lot. I also have a side I don't like to much. But don't everyone?

I think sometimes we have to live in the ass of the world for a bit to appreashate what we have and who we are. Interesting story crow

Just want to say I love u Bluey man, (not gay or anything lol), but not having friends is hurting my study tremendously. Instead of having a 3.8 gpa last year, I only got a 3.1 gpa. Studying is so hard, because u need a balance, and currently my social life is nonexistance. Do u really expect me to come back next year if by the end of the year I don't have any sort of friends?

I don't think I can pass all my class this time around, I been doing that for the past 10 years now, and when is it enough. I think after next quarter, with all the hard class I am taking, i won't be able to survive much longer. I think I reach my limit off how far I will go in life in school without any friends.

HAY! Man I gave you some brotherly love some place else on here lol Maybe I should make a thread about how much love two guys can show be for its conceded gay lmao ----- do do do do *Acts all manly* Moving on lol

Some ppl fined the hole college years the hardest of there life's. I think you are one of this ppl. Well that's obvious to anyone I think. You just have to get fro a couple moor years man and you well be qualified and be able to go get a job. That job well gives you a lot moor freedom. Freedom to get your own place and the ppl there well not all be party animals. They well be adults and I think moor grounded. College years are a bit mad. And not everyone is a party sort of guy. Am not but I like a good time.

what am trying to say is I think you well do a lot better in a working environment then at college. I know I always have in the past. In the short time I did work I made friends. But I have been back to college a number of times and never made any there.

And come on mate. If you don that many years you can get fro a fro moor now. I know even just a year can seem like a life time. But this years well soon pass.

This post was last modified: 10-29-2008 07:30 PM by Bluey.

Really, making friends is not easy for everyone. I'm actually surprised that with all the things you did to try and make some, you did not succeed. I guess a lot depends on the circumstances. I'm as shy and quiet as they come, yet I did have a very close friend when I was in uni, and some others were people I liked being with very much and who actually invited me to parties. In fact, my best friend was my complete opposite - one of the most social people I've ever known. However, I think it was more lucky circumstances than some particular merit of my own. It just so happened that I was lucky to meet a bunch of fun and kind folks. And me and my friend - we just kind of fit together perfectly at the time, plus we both share the love of fantasy fiction. We still meet from time to time, though it's more problematic as we live in different cities. But really, I see it more like a lucky coincidence that I got such a friend than anything else. For instance, when I went on with my master studies in the capital, I have not made a single friend. Quite to the contrary even, there were a few people who seemed to seriously not like me without any particular reason, although there were nice ones too. But we've never really been friends, just a couple of words here and there from time to time. They never seemed interested in becoming friends. Shame really, it seems to me that when people get just a bit older, they are no longer interested in making friends so much anymore. Forgive me, I probably digressed. Well, just wanted to say that it may be not solely your fault you don't have friends, a lot depends on chance too.