Dying alone would be okay with me, and i need more alone time then most people seem to need. I just don't want to alone the whole time until i get around to croaking.

I didnt want any relationships or anything to do with anybody until i found someone that I love.


Dieing alone is scary and I think exactly at that moment u want somebody to be there.

This post was last modified: 06-19-2008 10:41 AM by Incognita.

i dont want to be alone. but from all these horrible experiences ive had with people, really bums the shit out of me, therefore, i want to be alone now. because im afraid that once i make a friend or a gf, something bads gonna happen and i might be in worse situation than i was before and kill/hate myself. ive lost motivation and energy to go out there and make new friends. people fcuk you over sometimes. and basically im just embittered by relationship.

it really aint healthly to be alone for a long time. Sure sometimes u just wanna distance urself from every1 for a lil while, however if it lasts for too long then it aint good. Theres no point in living life if ur not gonna take a couple of risks. Sure we gotta play safe sometimes but tell me , wheres teh fun in that? U know what they say, its better to have love and lost rather than never love at all

You can also develop ur senses in such a way that u can really indentify what kind of a person you are dealing with. Its not hard at all, you just need some encouragement and a lil drive for that. Live life, dont dwell on ur sad times, the more u do , the more ull be sucked back into lonelyness and depression. Everyday is a new day , so treat it like one.

So, if all of you are perfectly comfortable being alone then why are you posting on a loneliness forum?

Sorry, but this is all making the kind of sense that doesn't.

Thats actually a great example of how we as humans need other ppl. Not necessarily emotionally for some ppl but for company at least. I know u mite think about dying alone and stuff but really....i doubt this thinking will last long. PPl have very long and rough lives and i sympathize with you if you have had such a life, but that is no reason for you to give up on living life. Think about it , whats better, spending ur life rotting or making the most out of ur life and 10 yrs later, being thankful that you took the appropriate steps to have a life that you always wanted. Think about it , im sure ull give enjying life another chance.

It sounds like your already dead...

Well it is called A lonely life. There is nothing wrong with that kinder life if your happy with it.

But I do get where your coming from. I think most just try and look on the bright side of things witch I would say is a good thing to try and be positive.

Yeah, I know. It just seemed like an ironic thread to have in a place called "a lonely life".

"I want to be by myself but dammit I sure am lonely!"

I understand though. It's probably better to be alone than be with the wrong person. At least it my limited experience with these types of things.

That I would agree with. To be with someone and ague every day would be a nightmare for me. There are to many ppl that stay with the wrong person just because there frightened to be alone. I mean ye being alone can and most of the time dose suck. And sometimes I think I would rather be in a ragging argument with someone than to have to seat here another second alone. But most of the time I would rather be on my own then ague with someone. When I do live with someone I wont that to be for love not cos of my own loneliness.

This post was last modified: 06-24-2008 12:26 AM by Bluey.