I'm 21 and never had a boyf I'd love to meet someone special but I don't really go anywhere to meet new people so not sure how it's going to happen. I'm kind of scared now that if I do ever meet someone.. and this is a very big IF, I'm worried I'll scare them off because I've no relationship experience etc. Also, I'm not exactly a super-confident kind of girl which I guess most guys don't like . Whenever I see cute couples holding hands and kissing and stuff, I always get so "ahhhhhhhhhhh, I want that" Guess I'll just keep on dreaming.

I'm 21 and never had a boyf I'd love to meet someone special but I don't really go anywhere to meet new people so not sure how it's going to happen. I'm kind of scared now that if I do ever meet someone.. and this is a very big IF, I'm worried I'll scare them off because I've no relationship experience etc. Also, I'm not exactly a super-confident kind of girl which I guess most guys don't like . Whenever I see cute couples holding hands and kissing and stuff, I always get so "ahhhhhhhhhhh, I want that" Guess I'll just keep on dreaming.

Hey tennisgirl
I dont even believe confident girls exist anymore. I mean I believe that i can see girls doing the same things I do which is hide their lack of confidence. But I have seen hot girls be all down on themselve for appearence reasons. Hot girls thinking their ugly/fat/blah blah blah list goes on. Smart girls freaking out over B pluses... My point is everyone has confidence issues. Its just either how much better we each person is at hiding it or if something is going particularly good moment in their life.

and im another person who has never had a gf weee!

I really wish I had someone to care about. Receiving affection and being thought about is great and all, but what I really miss is being there for someone. It feels so good to make a diff. in someone else's life and for them to need you/rely on you. I just like taking care of a girl and protecting her.

This post was last modified: 12-15-2007 02:23 PM by lonelyloser.

Well, here's another 20 yo that hasn't had any kind of relation, hehe, as you can see we're legion!!

I probably can subscribe what you say, and I probably feel the same than tennisgirl about our inexperience forbidding us to find someone, but every time that some girl got interested in me I had a really bad time, mainly because they just wanted me for a short term relationship, and when they started knowing me more and that they had to "work" a bit, they quickly ran away...

So, I know it's hard to say and impossible to follow, but just try not to think about it too much. And when you see a couple in the street... just turn your head. Most of the times, the best solution is the easier one.

I agree that our "inexperience forbids us to find someone", it seems that everyone has plenty of experience so they not only know what to expect, but what to do in a relationship. I came close to being in a relationship and part of the reason why it didn't work was because I was clueless about what to do. I think I think too much, and your right maybe we shouldn't think about it too much. It's actually gotten to the point where instead of turning my head, I change the direction I'm walking to avoid couples, depending on my mood. So here's to another 19 yr old never had a gf, cheers

Cheers mate, don't worry, I'm sure we are gonna find the best gf possible, all those girls were not obviously for us since they were totally pointless and just-for-fun, so although it had work, we'd ended up in a few. Good luck!

Lol....well people....fret not...i mean for most people out there.... I am 22 years old...not a single gf nor did girl approach me .....lol.....i know it might be dissapointing sometimes but somethings r better to wait.

Yep, I'm in this boat as well (I'm 21)

21....22....23....24....(???) yep I'll be heading past that for sure

I did have a GF @ 17 for 9 months & then again @ 18 for another 9 months then I had to go into hospital for major surgery and I have never had a GF sens are a job and am now 33 next month. Oh I did have a 3 month fling about two years ago but that was never going to work out as she always had difficulty in not dating other lads, So basically I have been alone all my adult life. Nearly 15 years. And its @ this time of the year when it really dose suck like donkey dick

Plies GOD if you are really there this is the time for miracles ,,, Give me one cos I truly do deserve it.... ps a nice one not one of them fucked up shit ones that you dis out.

Every one can dream I Guss,, My dream is I meat a girl and fall in love and we have the best love there ever was. And she stays faithfull cos its a problem it seams in to days world. Its like am the only one I know sometimes that has any morals at all.