Why is that?

isn't a fling a non-serious relationship that's pretty much just based on physical desire?

Well... I didn't want to be into the whole feeling sorry for myself thing again, but maybe I need to express this.

I am 20 yrs old and I have never had a girlfriend. Most women on this planet seem to dislike me . I have experienced cruelty from women since grade school and it still happens occasionally... mostly in comes in rude remarks or basic body language.

I'm a shy person, which doesn't help and I have no luck. All my friends, two of which i believe are as shy as I, have had unbelievable luck.. women seemed to come to them. Besides there just doesn't seem to be anybody who is for me out there.

I'm single my whole life. It's very depressing to be lonely. I'll be 22 years old next month.

yeah I hear ya...I'll be twenty in...a week or so? Never had a boyfriend. But ya know what? Right now I am not too worried about it, I have a lot of other things to sort out at the moment and its probably better that I am not in a relationship; I have all the room I need to deal with my own issues before I start getting tangled up in someone else's.

Not that you should have everything all worked out before hand, but sometimes you gotta do things on your own. Ya know?

Im 18 and ive never had a friend who was a girl...let alone a gf. In my own opinion this is very far from normal, but thats just life for u... god i need to keep reminding myself that something good will come along...

You guys are all lame...I'm sorry, but somebody had to say it! Listen here. I've never had a girlfriend either, but ya know what? Who needs 'em? I'm perfectly fine doing everything in life alone. I like riding my bike alone. Shooting pool alone. Going to the movies alone. Crying myself to sleep alone. The last thing I need in my life is somebody snuggling me or kissing me or, pfft...fucking me! God gave me my right hand for a reason, and I intend to put it to good use 'till the day I die! The rest of you should be perfectly content in doing the same. Suck it up.

You never fail to make me laugh.
You. Truly are gods gift to women.
How else could you make such a shitty situation so hilarious?

You gotta make light of the serious things. Otherwise I'd end up like you miserable cretins.

hope that "you" isn't directed at me...
because, I'm not yet 20, nor am I single.
Nor am I whining about it.

Settle down there, hoss. Just playin' around.