I'm 23 and never had a bf. Had my first kiss when I was 15, nothing since then. Oh wait, there was this guy once in a bar, asked me if I had any plans later in the night... He was totally drunk, so I wasn't really flattered.

It hurts when you see couples holding hands, hugging or kissing. Every time I'm more convinced that there is something wrong with me... Doesn't really help with my already low confidence.

i've never even been kissed. now THAT's bad!

i think its hard for guys who aren't outgoing, because the man is traditionally the one who initiates things and chats up the girl, so if you dont speak to girls, they're generally not going to come looking for you.

OK checks both your agers yep your both older nuff to be kissed by me just tell me where you all live and all go an a kissing marathon lol OK I joke of course.

I agree with you Helen and I could of been that drunk guy that asked LilyS. I think there is a fine line between having a drink for a bit of dutch courage and being totally legless. I mean that guy could of been totally sweet and perfect for you. But I if I had been you would not have entertained him in that stat ether. Dose not say a lot about a person if there that drunk.

Your are both quite young still. Give it time and am sure it well happen when it time to happen. I think you both are the sort of girls that when you meat the guy you wont to snog then that well also be the guy that you well wont to spent the rest of your life's with. In other words you are very nice girls and the sort of girls that a guy like me would love to settle down with and take home to meet mum and dad. Someone that i could trust not some slapper. If I got with a girl and she told me that she had never kissed a guy and I was the fist I would be totally flatted. really I would. In fact would probably be singing from the hill tops.

i'm glad you say that bluey. i was always scared that if i told someone that they'd think i was a freak (if they didnt already of course!!). are you sure you're not just saying that to get a kiss?

lol Am sure, But if your offering then am defiantly not going to say no *xxx* Now that I think you would have to agree that was pretty smooth lol

Seriously tho I would not look at you as a freak if a girl told me that. I think if anything it would make me feel a lot moor relax about things.

for a boy, there is also the matter of being afraid that if you uh...do something inappropriate you may get punched or sued or something..
could be just my weird thoughts though

lol , Kelthuzad, ur the lich from WC3 right?

lol , Kelthuzad, ur the lich from WC3 right?

it is i

I hear ya. While I've been in a few relationships (3 to be exact), the last one was around two years ago, and I do sometimes feel very low in confidence and feel that I am lacking something.

The way I deal with it is through living it out and telling myself that things will change. Well, maybe I just lie to myself. Maybe I'm just in denial.

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hmm...let see I'm almost 20 and never talk to a girl for longer than a few minute in my life. Now that make me wayyyy worst off then I could ever imagine. *sigh* not to mention girl have made fun of the way I look in the past or tease me far too many time