Well... I didn't want to be into the whole feeling sorry for myself thing again, but maybe I need to express this.

I am 20 yrs old and I have never had a girlfriend. Most women on this planet seem to dislike me . I have experienced cruelty from women since grade school and it still happens occasionally... mostly in comes in rude remarks or basic body language.

I'm a shy person, which doesn't help and I have no luck. All my friends, two of which i believe are as shy as I, have had unbelievable luck.. women seemed to come to them. Besides there just doesn't seem to be anybody who is for me out there.

Shit, that ain't nothing. I was 28 before I lost my virginity (unless you count the sexual abuse...)

As for girlfriends, it was always "almost". Chased them away by being too needy, looking back. Came close one time as a senior in high school. Probably not approved b/c from wrong side of tracks...

Then there were always those attached to others.

Then the married women stage. No sex, just <smooch> <smooch>.

Finally, a girl 10 years my junior (just 18) rescues me. Now, if I can just keep her mine...

Wow this thread is old, but still going strong. I think I reply on here before, but anyway here my new input.

Never had a gf and never will

Wow this thread is old, but still going strong. I think I reply on here before, but anyway here my new input.

Never had a gf and never will

Me neither.

Just kidding. Once you are out of high school/College, girls will probably begin to want to settle down with someone mature and serious, i.e. husband material, not the fast food boyfriends who they've been dating throughout College. Hopefully they will realise that jocks cannot support them or their family one day, and they will settle down with men who actually took proper degrees, and who didn't get into College just because they can kick a fucking ball a bit further than anyone else. I used to believe the same thing that you just said, but we are both still young, and there will probably be plenty of opportunities in the future. Probably.

Chris 2 Wrote:

Wow this thread is old, but still going strong. I think I reply on here before, but anyway here my new input.

Never had a gf and never will

Me neither.

Just kidding. Once you are out of high school/College, girls will probably begin to want to settle down with someone mature and serious, i.e. husband material, not the fast food boyfriends who they've been dating throughout College. Hopefully they will realise that jocks cannot support them or their family one day, and they will settle down with men who actually took proper degrees, and who didn't get into College just because they can kick a fucking ball a bit further than anyone else. I used to believe the same thing that you just said, but we are both still young, and there will probably be plenty of opportunities in the future. Probably.

Everything in your post there is why I well never have a girl. I well never have a degree and Ive never been able to kick a football around. Am like always in between. Am not physically fit and am not academically intelligent. What do I have to offer anyone let alone a girl that wants a man to support her and even maybe kids in the future? Well I have me. me is good. Tis all I have so it well have to do. But ye you and Chris have a lot moor to offer and the girls out there, they know it.

This post was last modified: 12-01-2008 02:14 AM by Bluey.

Shit, that ain't nothing. I was 28 before I lost my virginity (unless you count the sexual abuse...)

As for girlfriends, it was always "almost". Chased them away by being too needy, looking back. Came close one time as a senior in high school. Probably not approved b/c from wrong side of tracks...

Then there were always those attached to others.

Then the married women stage. No sex, just <smooch> <smooch>.

Finally, a girl 10 years my junior (just 18) rescues me. Now, if I can just keep her mine...

Is she still around?

There sure will be.

Chris 2 Wrote:

Wow this thread is old, but still going strong. I think I reply on here before, but anyway here my new input.

Never had a gf and never will

Me neither.

Just kidding. Once you are out of high school/College, girls will probably begin to want to settle down with someone mature and serious, i.e. husband material, not the fast food boyfriends who they've been dating throughout College. Hopefully they will realise that jocks cannot support them or their family one day, and they will settle down with men who actually took proper degrees, and who didn't get into College just because they can kick a fucking ball a bit further than anyone else. I used to believe the same thing that you just said, but we are both still young, and there will probably be plenty of opportunities in the future. Probably.

Hey but I want to be those guys that those girls date in college. It like once they have all their fun, when they are all used up, they go and settle with me this is weird, I need a break, some good H20 should cube things up a bit.

Caesium Wrote:

Chris 2 Wrote:

Wow this thread is old, but still going strong. I think I reply on here before, but anyway here my new input.

Never had a gf and never will

Me neither.

Just kidding. Once you are out of high school/College, girls will probably begin to want to settle down with someone mature and serious, i.e. husband material, not the fast food boyfriends who they've been dating throughout College. Hopefully they will realise that jocks cannot support them or their family one day, and they will settle down with men who actually took proper degrees, and who didn't get into College just because they can kick a fucking ball a bit further than anyone else. I used to believe the same thing that you just said, but we are both still young, and there will probably be plenty of opportunities in the future. Probably.

Hey but I want to be those guys that those girls date in college. It like once they have all their fun, when they are all used up, they go and settle with me this is weird, I need a break, some good H20 should cube things up a bit.

No, fuck those guys. You want to sacrifice intelligence and maturity for ignorance, stupidity, big muscles, and some quick fucking? Fine, go ahead

Hey I'm kind of in the ssame boat :], I'm very shy and have confidence issues... leads me to avoid talking to most women except in a business-like setting. I'm nineteen and have had two girlfriends in my life, both away from home and for no longer than a week. I find it important to note that I didn't initiate the relationships either, and both of them seemed clingy and I was irresolute, so things didn't work out. But yea, I'm just kind of observing things right now before jumping in, have done that for quite some time.

Old thread I know, but here's bumping from a 21 year old virgin who has never been kissed by a girl.