hi, oh my godh.. i read the thread with you're botfriend..it's not a big deal, i don't think it did anything to your reputation (i'm not even sure most people here have a reputation really). But yea, highly doubt anyone would judge you negatively on that...
Don't feel shy n stuff...to me here is a ..lol..a safe haven, a place to open-up to people when you can't in the real world...

seriously though..keep posting and stuff...how else do you thing we'd have all these threads and post ..if people were shy n didn't post (that is)
oh and i thought you made you're point well..(with the bf thing)... girls should not be judged so heavily on how many men they have been with.

Each person has led a different life...we shouldn't be judged at all really..but in a more practical sense I think we should be judged on how good we are to others...as in if we value others pain and so on near to ours (so i agreed with you..but that's off-topic..and don't want to keep that discussion going)

so just keep posting...expression of different opinions make the world a less lonely place for the different (lol)

Hi again.

I just want to say that I think letting my boyfriend reply to a thread (just because I thought it would help more if a man answered) was a mistake. I'm saying that because now I feel like it may have ruined my reputation on here (maybe you'll get confused, like, who is answering), and I just want it to be me answering from now, as I don't always agree with all of my boyfriends views, after all we are different people. I want this to be my safe haven, I won't let my boyfriend butt in anymore

Also, after his post I now feel shy and embaressed because of some of the things he wrote (about me) which I personally thought was abit pointless...

Anyway, I hope to get my courage back and be able to open up on this forum.

Thanks

Don't worry about it, understandable. Get your courage back and open up on this forum already!

Droplet Wrote:

Hi again.

I just want to say that I think letting my boyfriend reply to a thread (just because I thought it would help more if a man answered) was a mistake. I'm saying that because now I feel like it may have ruined my reputation on here (maybe you'll get confused, like, who is answering), and I just want it to be me answering from now, as I don't always agree with all of my boyfriends views, after all we are different people. I want this to be my safe haven, I won't let my boyfriend butt in anymore

Also, after his post I now feel shy and embaressed because of some of the things he wrote (about me) which I personally thought was abit pointless...

Anyway, I hope to get my courage back and be able to open up on this forum.

Thanks

Don't worry about it, understandable. Get your courage back and open up on this forum already!

Mink, why are you lonely, you're such a great person I've been enjoying your posts!

And everyone else, great people on here

Thanks I guess it's just bad experience from other forums that make me abit paranoid

mink Wrote:

Droplet Wrote:

Hi again.

I just want to say that I think letting my boyfriend reply to a thread (just because I thought it would help more if a man answered) was a mistake. I'm saying that because now I feel like it may have ruined my reputation on here (maybe you'll get confused, like, who is answering), and I just want it to be me answering from now, as I don't always agree with all of my boyfriends views, after all we are different people. I want this to be my safe haven, I won't let my boyfriend butt in anymore

Also, after his post I now feel shy and embaressed because of some of the things he wrote (about me) which I personally thought was abit pointless...

Anyway, I hope to get my courage back and be able to open up on this forum.

Thanks

Don't worry about it, understandable. Get your courage back and open up on this forum already!

Mink, why are you lonely, you're such a great person I've been enjoying your posts!

And everyone else, great people on here

Why, thank you, I'm not that great that's why I'm lonely. Lol..
But seriously, I'm lonely cos...well I have friends but that's my social life outside. My own life, it's lonely, no one to love, no companion, I miss my dad more and more and I seem to be the only one still struggling to get on my own two feet. Lonesome.

I think I'm more smiley cos I try to have a positive outlook in things. So tired of you know? Lol..so I just try to chill and smile when I can, besides having those emotional moments.

Droplet Wrote:

mink Wrote:

Droplet Wrote:

Hi again.

I just want to say that I think letting my boyfriend reply to a thread (just because I thought it would help more if a man answered) was a mistake. I'm saying that because now I feel like it may have ruined my reputation on here (maybe you'll get confused, like, who is answering), and I just want it to be me answering from now, as I don't always agree with all of my boyfriends views, after all we are different people. I want this to be my safe haven, I won't let my boyfriend butt in anymore

Also, after his post I now feel shy and embaressed because of some of the things he wrote (about me) which I personally thought was abit pointless...

Anyway, I hope to get my courage back and be able to open up on this forum.

Thanks

Don't worry about it, understandable. Get your courage back and open up on this forum already!

Mink, why are you lonely, you're such a great person I've been enjoying your posts!

And everyone else, great people on here

Why, thank you, I'm not that great that's why I'm lonely. Lol..
But seriously, I'm lonely cos...well I have friends but that's my social life outside. My own life, it's lonely, no one to love, no companion, I miss my dad more and more and I seem to be the only one still struggling to get on my own two feet. Lonesome.

I think I'm more smiley cos I try to have a positive outlook in things. So tired of you know? Lol..so I just try to chill and smile when I can, besides having those emotional moments.

I see, I've got a boyfriend and no real friends (1 I have, but she lives far away (in my home town) and I rarely see her), so slightly different situation. What I REALLY want is just a close friend (doesen't matter, male or female, but I usually stay clear of males now, because they mostly just have hidden intentions), preferrably a female who is open minded and interesting and still likes to have fun that I can share with, and be there for each other. Doesen't have to be many, just miss real closeness with a female, with no drama, jealousy or intrigues.

Yeah I know. Just someone, like a sister minus the dramas, jealousy and intrigues - means she's just bonded to you through the good and bad times. Just always there and close at heart. But it's hard to find one. I hope you do sometime, sooner or later.

By the way, am I asking for too much in asking for a close friendship? Reading back on my post it looked like I had a long checklist... I really just want someone I can relax and be genuine with, and not dumbing myself down to have conversation.

By the way Mink, I would like to know more about your experience, have you made any threads about it?

By the way, am I asking for too much in asking for a close friendship? Reading back on my post it looked like I had a long checklist... I really just want someone I can relax and be genuine with, and not dumbing myself down to have conversation.

By the way Mink, I would like to know more about your experience, have you made any threads about it?

I think most people would want that basically so too much? I don't think so, not for me. Lol..

Lmao you know when I read "have you made any threads about it?" I was reading "threads" as "threats" lol okay sorry going off topic.
Anyway, nope I don't have a specific thread on my story, just a short introduction at the New Members forum, and basically I write my experiences all over this forum in my replies. Lol..but now that you mention it, it'd probably be a good idea to start one huh. Should I? Cos I tend to have problems averting everyone's attention to me in one thread, it's threatening. Lol..

Droplet Wrote:

By the way, am I asking for too much in asking for a close friendship? Reading back on my post it looked like I had a long checklist... I really just want someone I can relax and be genuine with, and not dumbing myself down to have conversation.

By the way Mink, I would like to know more about your experience, have you made any threads about it?

I think most people would want that basically so too much? I don't think so, not for me. Lol..

Lmao you know when I read "have you made any threads about it?" I was reading "threads" as "threats" lol okay sorry going off topic.
Anyway, nope I don't have a specific thread on my story, just a short introduction at the New Members forum, and basically I write my experiences all over this forum in my replies. Lol..but now that you mention it, it'd probably be a good idea to start one huh. Should I?

Lol, have you made any threats about it?

Only if you want to and feel like it

I see you're from Singapore? You know I wanted to move there at one time, it beautiful there isn't it?