Hey,guys!
ok, you need to not be so sad okay. I mean there's still hope for all of us,so pleeeeeeeassse don't kill yourselves just yet.As hard as this is to believe right now there are sadder cases out there and you'll survive as long as there's no guns or knives involved. Hang in there and stay strong. I just came out of depression myself and it gets better,trust me!

keeper,if u r really lacking of look, at least u r a healthy man. dont u think thats the most important thing indeed?

Yes, that's the most important thing to me. Not to others, unfortunately...

hi, from reading this posts i don't have much to say because i feel a little bit like it's not my disscusion, but i still wanted to say that you should never give up on love, there is always love in this world, even if this world is so mean...there is always somebody that just like you looks for love you just have to wait...don't lose hope, and never say you gave up love...

I gave up. At least for a while

I gave up. At least for a while

now why did you do that? if you don't have love how do you want not to feel lonely...i don't now this is just my oppinion...but then again you don't have to listen to me...

a kiss and a big smile FOR LOVE!!!!!!!

keeper Wrote:

I gave up. At least for a while

now why did you do that? if you don't have love how do you want not to feel lonely...i don't now this is just my oppinion...but then again you don't have to listen to me...

a kiss and a big smile FOR LOVE!!!!!!!

I gave up because it's better this way...

dont give up ,  if u give up that  means the death and wts the point if we here on earth and dont resist ! ,,, do u think if u in love so that is the paradise ? no ,, will be disagreements , will be there problems so ull also give up ?  , plz i am sure there s someone waiting for u but ur sadness make u blind u cannt see him good or not give it enough patience  ,,, u r a kind person its not a compliment am sure u r ...also  if some hates u that possible caused by misunderstanding , or u dont know the right way to treat them or , or , or , but u said all of them hates u  here idont think so we cannt say all of them r wrong no just we can say u dont see some or all of them loving u , or u keep bushing them away , so plz dont cry ur beautiful eyes doesnt deserve that ...

dont give up , if u give up that means the death and wts the point if we here on earth and dont resist ! ,,, do u think if u in love so that is the paradise ? no will be disagreements will be there problems so ull also give up ? , plz i am sure there s someone waiting for u but ur sadness make u blind u cannt see him good or not give urself enough time to meet him ,,, u r a kind person its not a compliment am sure u r ...also if some hates u that possible there s misunderstanding u dont know the right way to treat them or , or , or , but u said all of em hates u here idont think so we cannt say all of them r wrong no just we can say u dont see they r lovin u , so plz dont cry ur beautiful eyes doesnt deserve that ...

Hi all, I seem to be in a slightly different situation to alot, I am actually fairly good looking and I have been with some very attractive girls, looks are important it seems, I want to try and change my outlook as i look for physical attraction far too much. i seem to have a personality problem, i don't know what's wrong with me, I think maybe its calmer or something, sometimes i think im a bad person, but alot of the time I think im a really good friend to people, I kinda have two problems, i found out today that my "best mate" is kind of seeing a girl I have recently been with, he knows how much im still in love with her, I basicly found this out on msn messager, i was using his laptop and this girl started messaging me thinking I was him, i didn't reply, but i looked at his convisation history which i shouldn't have done as its a complete invasion of privacy and found out that he apparently doesn't even like me! and she seems to hate me too, I feel like i have no real friends, and everyone including me can be so two faced, how do you know who to trust and open up too.

I long to be in a loving relationship, more than anything, i just dont know what to do, if my personality is my problem can you change your personality? you can always do things to make yourself look better but can you make a personality, which everyone says is the important thing, better?

I find life so hard sometimes, which i really shouldn't there are so many people out there in situations that are horrific in comparison. I go out of my way to find danger, secretly more for the danger than the thrill of doing it, I could never kill myself but by putting myself in these situations I might just end it all, like racing car's, free climbing (rock climbing without rope), etc. I feel so stupid for saying these things like i said there are so many people out there worse off.

My debt problems don't help matters, im with a debt management company due to being over £30k in debt, mostly spent on my car and ex girlfirend.

Does anyone have any advice for me on changing my personality so people will like mem or how to be a better friend so they actually like me?