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Imaginary Girlfriend

Do you think is okay or safe?

I mean while I'm watching people t.v. (mostly reality shows)
I'll see different situations and imagine being in those
situations. I imagine what I would say and the things I
would do in those situations.

I do this for hours on end.

I even caught myself doing this in public a few times.
I wasn't talking out loud or making any strange movements
or anything like that, but I started mumbling to myself a few
times. I stop myself each time and I don't think anyone
saw me.

Should I try and stop this before it gets out of hand?

06-18-2008 09:21 PM
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RE: Imaginary Girlfriend

I would say its OK to day dream. I mean this is how we fined out what we wont in life. Just as long as its not stopping you from getting on in life and its not interrupting work/school act I don't see the harm.

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06-18-2008 10:17 PM
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RE: Imaginary Girlfriend

If it helps You feel better, that's all that matters. I imagine being with someone alot too, from in situations as basic as grocery-shopping to more complex one's like shouting to each-other during a mountain-climbing to keep track of each-other, and making love. Mine's not made up though. Try not to do this on a potential date or the like though, or You might loose a real girlfriend for that made-up one, and that's not something i'd recommend! Wink

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RE: Imaginary Girlfriend

Sounds okay to me. I spend all day talking to myself...or is that a bit weird...sorry...comes with the nature of the job that I do.


Sometimes I wonder about my life.

I lead a small life, well valuable but small. And sometimes I wonder. Do I do it because I like it or because I haven't been brave?

So much of what I see reminds me of something I read in a book when shouldn't it be the other way around?

I don't really want an answer. I just want to send this cosmic question out into the void.

So, goodnight dear void.
06-19-2008 05:15 AM
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*** I imagine what I would say and the things I
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Hi Life Smile
Believe it or not you really have a great tool there Smile I've heard of people rehearsing things and imagining what they would say if__?

It's a good thing to do before speeches. As far as you finding yourself doing it, I think you may have just gotten into a habit...lol


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no-life Wrote:
Should I try and stop this before it gets out of hand?


If you feel that it is getting out of hand.

Otherwise some suggest visualizing yourself engaging in a social situation, claiming that it can help you handle real-life social situation. Which seems to be pretty much what you are describing.

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I find that taking your lifesize blow-up doll around with you like it's a normal person is just the right, socially acceptable way to have your "imaginary girlfriend".



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Imaginary Girlfriend? I had one but she left me for some good looking rich guy!

06-20-2008 04:36 AM
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I figure it's fine as long as you don't pass up something good and real when it comes along cos it's not so perfect as the dream...at least that's what I tell Anushka, my pillow-Girl-friend Smile

06-23-2008 11:00 PM
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