i am going to throw my two cent worth in here.....i am a bigger guy...o.k. fat....lol..... girls. females, ldies, dont even give us a chance, doesnt matter i have great sense of humour, doesnt matter i still beleieve in a lot of old fashioned values, doesnt matter that im courteous, doesnt matter im respectful and polite, doesnt matter i try to ve the gentleman, doesnt matter that i have never had a one night stand. doesnt matter that i beleive in flowers and romance. it doesnt matter that i wont swear in front of a female. those things and hundreds more , because we, as humans use i sight to judge more than anything else. its been proven that a women will decide in the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if sex is a possibility, it may take some time, but those first 30 seconds decide ie...being big , no matter what i say , do , or act, the decision has already been made and nothing i do will/would change it. thats not my opinion, these are facts......and facts that women have relayed in surveys and scientific studies..... so where are all the decent guys........you see them 100s of times a day but do you ever look????
i am going to throw my two cent worth in here.....i am a bigger guy...o.k. fat....lol..... girls. females, ldies, dont even give us a chance, doesnt matter i have great sense of humour, doesnt matter i still beleieve in a lot of old fashioned values, doesnt matter that im courteous, doesnt matter im respectful and polite, doesnt matter i try to ve the gentleman, doesnt matter that i have never had a one night stand. doesnt matter that i beleive in flowers and romance. it doesnt matter that i wont swear in front of a female. those things and hundreds more , because we, as humans use i sight to judge more than anything else. its been proven that a women will decide in the first 30 seconds of meeting a guy if sex is a possibility, it may take some time, but those first 30 seconds decide ie...being big , no matter what i say , do , or act, the decision has already been made and nothing i do will/would change it. thats not my opinion, these are facts......and facts that women have relayed in surveys and scientific studies..... so where are all the decent guys........you see them 100s of times a day but do you ever look????
in a girl the main core things i'm looking for are things like loyalty, honesty, being physically affectionate, warmth of personality, intelligence that sort of thing
good taste in music, movies, travel ideas and such would be a bonus
as would liking me be!
body type or general style isnt anything like a priority, as long as they are reasonably secure about themselves and confident
oh and if your breaking it down as far as things like breast size, if i had to make a choice on the spot i'd probly say i prefer small
but really when im looking for someone to live a significant part of my life with, looks are no big thing
cheers Gavin
This post was last modified: 09-18-2008 08:01 AM by Viper_Baritone.
i actually kinda prefer smaller boobs, not non-existent... but smaller... I'm a legs and butt guy.
Now to get away from that aspect... I could never date a girl I consider dumb, lazy, or mean. I prefer a woman that is caring, ambitious, intelligent, and sweet. As was said before... I'll never say looks don't play a role... they call it attraction for a reason... I couldn't go to bed with someone I was physically repulsed by... but my standards really aren't that high.
Free hugs, snuggles, cuddles, and more. Just PM me... and for the sake of being sincere, we'll pretend it was all an accident.
This post was last modified: 10-16-2008 04:37 AM by Papabear.
i actually kinda prefer smaller boobs, not non-existent... but smaller... I'm a legs and butt guy.
Now to get away from that aspect... I could never date a girl I consider dumb, lazy, or mean. I prefer a woman that is caring, ambitions, intelligent, and sweet. As was said before... I'll never say looks don't play a role... they call it attraction for a reason... I couldn't go to bed with someone I was physically repulsed by... but my standards really aren't that high.
Same he explained me perfectly *knuckle up*
"Please see the bleeding heart perched on my shirt"
i actually kinda prefer smaller boobs, not non-existent... but smaller... I'm a legs and butt guy.
Now to get away from that aspect... I could never date a girl I consider dumb, lazy, or mean. I prefer a woman that is caring, ambitious, intelligent, and sweet. As was said before... I'll never say looks don't play a role... they call it attraction for a reason... I couldn't go to bed with someone I was physically repulsed by... but my standards really aren't that high.
Same he explained me perfectly *knuckle up*
ahh *bones*
This post was last modified: 10-16-2008 04:37 AM by Papabear.