Hi to all,

I don't know how this works yet so I'll just try and see.


Like all of you I feel lonely and at this stage it's quite severe.
I made a list the other day which scared me a bit.
I am not
a daughter since parents died
a mother since my daughter rejected me
a partner since my partner dumped me
and the list goes on.
Then who am I?
We tend to define ourselves by our relationships with others. If we have no significant others in this case no family or partner then what?

I sometimes think that the lack of family and the consequent loneliness will shorten my life. Don't know how to fix it.

I've never defined people from their contact with others and i don't think You'll run in to too many people who do so here. =)

You are:
at the right place,
a person who've gone through alot (what doesn't kill You makes You stronger!),
a woman with a cool name,
welcome to our community.

Hi Emilia

Hello and welcome!

I know it's hard, but don't give up. Sometimes the only thing that gets me through the rough times is telling myself: "Things will get better." over and over like a mantra.

Things will get better for you. In the meantime, enjoy your stay.

Hi Emilia and welcome here. I have to say I could not have said it better then Robin here. I agree with all he just said.

This post was last modified: 05-24-2008 01:48 AM by Bluey.

Thanks so much to those who have written. I really appreciate it.
Maybe I have at last found somewhere I belong:>)

ya welcome to the forum Emilia

i hope you like it here, and you're always welcome to PM me anytime

Hi Emilia, and welcome to the forum.

ya welcome to the forum Emilia

i hope you like it here, and you're always welcome to PM me anytime

Thanks evanescencefan:>)

Hi Emilia, and welcome to the forum.

Thanks Blue Sky (an optimistic name:>)
We live in the same town.