It's mostly genetics. Both of my parents are skinny and stuff, that's how I ended up skinny and unattractive. I wish I could get bigger muscles but no matter how much I work out there's only so far I can go. If it makes you feel better, I've had bad acne since I was 14 and have a big nose too.

When I was younger I used to think I was decent looking, but now my hair is starting to thin as I venture into middle age. Makes me feel ugly. I try to offset the ugly factor by working out a lot. I'm a lot healthier now but I'm still depressed and alone. not sure why I bother.

I'm not ugly, I'm a bit of the opposite. But I haven't really felt confident about it either, I'm never really satisfied with my looks, I guess it just comes to low self esteem

It's mostly genetics. Both of my parents are skinny and stuff, that's how I ended up skinny and unattractive. I wish I could get bigger muscles but no matter how much I work out there's only so far I can go. If it makes you feel better, I've had bad acne since I was 14 and have a big nose too.
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At least i'm not alone in this way, I don't even work out to try and improve myself. I used to work out to impress a certain special someone but that didn't go well...at all and is a whole nother tragedy, but anyway I don't work out any more I just sorta gave up..

This post was last modified: 11-03-2007 09:37 AM by NeverMore.

Well, no, actually. I see myself as good looking, and people in general see me as good looking to exceptionally so. Sometimes I don't feel I look my best, and I blame most of those days on aging. Eh, what can you do?

There are some issues I have with myself physically. I think my posture is horrible. I think I might have a funny looking walk and run, and I know I don't usually sit up straight. I haven't gone skating in a while, but I feel like I'd look weird doing that too. I really should find a good workout, build up a bit. I don't really consider myself sexy in terms of muscles, but I do see a great deal of potential that could be realized with just a drop of effort.

I do this, but not just with myself... I do it with other people as well. It depends on what my mood is like each day. If I feel angry or down, then I will be more critical of myself and also of other people. Some days I don't think anyone is even the slightest bit attractive at all. But if I'm feeling good I'm a lot less hard on myself and won't be so critical of others at the same time.

A person's attractiveness changes with how I feel about them, too. If they're a horrible person, suddenly they aren't as good looking as they once were. They become dull and unextraordinary. If I warm to them, suddenly I am less critical of their appearance and the personality characteristics that attract me to them start to enhance their physical attrubutes.

Yup, this is how i see people too.
There are some not so good looking people out there (by fact, no offence) but they're really nice people, suddenly i find them attractive even though they don't look like it physically. So that's where "looks don't matter to me" comes in cos who the person really is like inside defines their beauty and ugliness.
But of course, there are some people who don't see it this way. *shrugs*

All buy you half a Guinness then and all stick with me BUD

Your a cheap date then lonelygirl lol my kinder girl

Hee! I'm pretty cheap, but not in that way...haha.

Or so I'd like to think!

;-)

LG

I just want to know?

I feel ugly because I'm ugly. Like I didn't get to choose what I look like, so I guess I'm just the unlucky child. Anyway, I'll kill myself ASAP when my mom die of old age or something. I just know suicide is the best option for me. I never been kiss by a girl and prolly never will. I look good if you look at me from the front, but on my side, I look deformed, and that why I can't even smile.