a problem 2 who 4 what?

Well one should never forget that inner beauty can surface out and cover up ugliness or deformities.
Least that's how I feel.

i was always told that i was pretty,,,never though that i was though,,,,i can tell you something,,i have never went out with a gorgeous guy they just don't interest me at all,,,, i have always went for brains,,oh and i like a guy that likes to be funny too,,,and bluey,,you have those qualities that i usually look for,,,,and my angel does too thats why i am so very much in love with him...

Yes. Ugly people are repulsive. And when I used the word "ugly" I mean their disposition. Nowadays anyone can be attractive. With the right haircut and hair-care products, and clothes everyone can be aesthetically pleasing.

Is that really true? Will everybody think you are attractive when you take care of things like that?

I guess its a problem for me as I dont have the confidence to talk to people, or chat up guys because of how I look. (I know what you're gonna say, Colette, but I cant see it, and I've tried looking).
I dont think it matters in the slightest if your friends or people you care for are not what society would call 'good-looking', but everyone has a different definition of what good-looking or ugly is. One of my colleagues damn near laughed her arse off when I told her I had the hots for Seth Rogen (40 year old virgin, Superbad etc. Look him up). You wanna know what the most attractive thing is in a man in my opinion? A sense of humour. Funny guys are the cutest =¬)

To some yes. to every one else no.

I do think that some ppl just are not great looking no matter what they do. I myself walk with a limp and no matter how many good things I buy to where are what I do with my hair that's always going to be there. To some that's ugly and I do think the deformity of my actuarial body when I stand in front of the mirror in my birthday suit is disgusting. Some days I just cert bear to look at it my self. So how am I going to expect someone else to fancy it/me.

I mean am not going to walk down the street with my top of on a hot summers day and some girl go look at that fit guy there hahah that's just not going to happen to me.

But I do think I have a good sense of humour for all the good that's ever done me.

OK not my most positive post but that is how I feel.

See, that's the real issue. People believe what they see. If you feel beautiful and confident people will see that and be attracted to that.

Haven't you ever seen a guy who isn't physically attractive but yet for some reason women are throwing their panties at him? It's not cuz he's good looking.

No its cos they think he got a big -_-_-_ hah

I have got a real deformed back tho D,,, Its stopped me from going swimming and I can get into center parks anytime I like for nothing as my mum works there but to many ppl always looking gives you a very bad complex of your self not to Manichean all the scars I have as well as the deformity plus the one leg shorter then the other (limp) I tell you the truth this is not in my head

ok you guys i guess asked for it,,now bluey deformities are not what makes a person,,,,now look at this guy



now this guy is married and has a daughter,,,yes he also is a singer songwriter and plays the guitar,,,,and its not cause he is famous that he got a wife either cause he started going out with her in high school,,,see his parents always treated him as an equal,,,and he has always had lots of confidence in himself,,thats what makes a guy or girl get someone in there lives not looks

oh and he was born this way