To call anyone who dislikes being criticised "an emotional leper or mental wreck" is ridiculously over the top.

To me, an emotional leper would be one who shows such callous disregard for the feelings of others...

What kind of stupid retard is going to critized someone that just cooked you a meal ?
That's like biting the hand that's feeding you.lol

Obviously some poeple don't like desert...as in getting laid. (For the retarded people)

It's not any different then get pass the gruads....no ?

I'm giving constructive critism....lol

This post was last modified: 09-22-2008 06:07 AM by Lonesome Crow.

Well, for someone who does their best to tell the truth, (and expects it in return), I have to say it's interesting to read other peoples views on lies.
I myself will tell the truth, even at the expense of sounding a little rude or mean. For example, the party...I agree I may say I'm a little tired or need to get up early, but if they ask me whether I had a good time, I may reply "I had a good time (to my friend), but maybe you should consider adding a few more upbeat activities next time to get people up and going." I would hate for them to continue to keep having such parties, and then no one ever wants to show up.
There are even ways to tell the truth, without totally telling it. Like the German example. They want to know about the cargo. IDK what kinds of things were shipped, but you could talk about delivering important clothing items or whatever a person may have been wearing that was needed or disposing of waste, or anything related, but not direct.
I myself, (as a woman), appreciate the truth from a man. If my food sux, I want to know, so I can fix it next time I make it. I want to know if I'm gaining too much weight, (as if my clothes don't already tell me that), if it's a problem and you aren't liking it, then exercise with me or quit eating so much of my cooking .
On the same note, I will tell you when you get on my nerves, upset me, make me want to cry, hurt me or are just really acting like a retarded jack-azz. The people I deal with always know exactly where we stand with each other and how I feel about them.
We are only honest with others when we are honest with ourselves first.