Well, don't feel hated. I don't hate you, so you're not always hated. You just need to change your perspective. You've lost life somewhere. You just need to find it, but you have to want to first. I have faith that you can do it.

That is a very wise thing to have said.

Its a bit like treat other ppl how you would like to be treated.

Problem is every time I have done ether of those things I don't ever get the same back

But on the flip sighed to that I can sleep at night with a clean conchants

Its a bit like treat other ppl how you would like to be treated.

Problem is every time I have done ether of those things I don't ever get the same back

u know. thats xactly my same prob. u just never get not not even anywhere close 2 what u give. its like here have some gold. then u get.here have some crumbz. pfffffffft

Has anyone ever tried offering someone some Ice Breakers gum in order to break the ice?


This seems like a fail-proof method.

That was kind of lame, but yeah, i've tried it before.

I'm so lame... lol

Really? What kind of response did you get from the other person? Honestly, if someone tried it on me I wouldn't think of it as lame. It's a bit more interesting than just saying "Hi!".

Perhaps to make a friend, you must be one in return. Give without expecting anything back. Do just for the sake of doing. We keep wanting and wanting, but who can really give us what we want? No one really, and this is not a bad thing. We just need to live without attaching so much emotion to everything. Just love people and be there for them. Be selfless and not selfish. You can feel the difference and people will be drawn to you. But don't search and yearn, just be. There's no harm in desiring friendship, but desperation is too painful and disasterous. To make a friend, you must be one in return, but before you can be anyone's friend, you must be a yourself's friend.