well, i was just curious...why were u with her in the 1st place, how long and why broke up...
....and maybe why not tell the whole story? This kind of relationships always puzzzzzzzled me ....
As tyra banks says ,looking pretty in her comfy couch ,...:" Sooo, tell us about it"
No problem Tyra...uh...Incognita.
I met her on a BBS that a friend and I ran. For those of you too young to remember, a BBS (Bulletin Board Service) was a pre-internet message board. You called in with a 1200 baud modem and could post messages and reply. We started talking one day and eventually ended up meeting...and falling in love.
The fact that she had kids didn't even phase me. I liked her too much to let it get in the way. They were all great, not a brat in the bunch and I got along with all of them.
We talked about living together, getting married, etc, but for some reason things never materialized. It was no one's fault, we were just big procrastinators.
Things came to a halt when one evening a man with a ladder broke into her upstairs bedroom while she was home alone. I won't go into detail but he basically did terrible things for hours and left her for dead. Amazingly, she lived.
After that happened, I guess she decided she wanted to start her life over fresh. This didn't include me and she stopped returning my phonecalls. I think perhaps she simply couldn't deal with a relationship at that point. I understand why she had to let me go but I was still devastated. We were together for 6 years.
Anyway, there's my tragic tale...and one of the many reasons why I'm a very sad person.
Maybe I should have started a different thread. I hope I didn't derail this one too much.
Dude, she was probably so emotionally messed up. I can't believe you let her leave after that
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thanks... pardon me...but why did u like her so much?
You're very welcome. I hope that wasn't too much information.
As to why I liked her, we just got along really well. We had a lot of the same interests and she could be silly at times (like me). She was extremely pretty but she didn't think she was. I spent a lot of time trying to convince her of it which created some amusing conversations.
I guess it was just a bunch of little things that added up.
As to why I liked her, we just got along really well. We had a lot of the same interests and she could be silly at times (like me). She was extremely pretty but she didn't think she was. I spent a lot of time trying to convince her of it which created some amusing conversations.
I guess it was just a bunch of little things that added up.
This sounds very familiar.......
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This post was last modified: 05-31-2008 01:05 AM by Hijacc.
thanks... pardon me...but why did u like her so much?
You're very welcome. I hope that wasn't too much information.
As to why I liked her, we just got along really well. We had a lot of the same interests and she could be silly at times (like me). She was extremely pretty but she didn't think she was. I spent a lot of time trying to convince her of it which created some amusing conversations.
I guess it was just a bunch of little things that added up.
so, she basically like broke up because of what happened with that man with ledder? Just like that?Cause ..u have been together for a while
I never had a problem dating when I had small children. It depends on the man. Some don't want the responsibility but, there are plenty of men who don't mind. My children are grown except for my 16 yr old at home. My thing was that I never introduced my children to my dates. I was very protective of my children. Only the men I dated seriously got to meet them.
Now heres a kicker. I recently broke up with a man I was engaged to for the past four years. One of the things that hindered our relationship was the way he treated his six year old daughter. He was obsessed with her every want. I was tired of feeling and being last on his list of priorities. There has to be a balance in a relationship-with or without the children.
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