| I know the solution but can't put it into action. |
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Guest Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
| I know the solution but can't put it into action.
Yes I'm lonely but the thing that really gets to me is that I know what to do so that I'm not lonely. Simple, just go out and talk to people. Thing is I'm sensitive to criticism and rejection so I don't do it. The answer is right in front of my face but I just can't do it. Sucks.
I've been doing some affirmations and it really helped. I say it in my mind often during day or when I feel criticized or rejected by people.
Anyone do affirmations?
I'm up for chatting and sharing ideas. I have msn and my sn is huyvu90@hotmail.com. Hope to hear from some you guys. |
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| 07-26-2007 01:45 PM | |
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LT Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
| RE: I know the solution but can't put it into action.
I know what to do so that I'm not lonely. Simple, just go out and talk to people. That works for some peolpe; it doesn't for others. Never has for me; don't think it ever will. Sounds like you are young. Personally, I think at a certain point no longer trying may be the best solution for me and others like me. At least that way there is no pain from disappointment. I just try (failing so far) to improve myself and be the best person I know how to be, so that I am happy with myself, and if someone comes along (which seems truely impossible), then they will be more likely to start a friendship/relationship with someone who is not down and depressed and bitter.
I wish I could be as optimistic as you and some on this forum are.
What are "affrimations"? I am glad they help you.
I am also glad the other "guests" are not all just spider-bots, as I had feared.
Good luck!
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| 07-26-2007 02:57 PM | |
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Guest Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
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| 07-26-2007 04:51 PM | |
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LT Unregistered MyMood: None Points:
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affirmations Well, maybe they aren't bots, but one of them sure is a petty brat.
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| 07-26-2007 10:36 PM | |
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