Since my relationship failed I stopped shaving, for the first time in 20 years.

I am now quite fond of my facial hair, and I save a fortune in razors

Hehe, yeah facial hair is pretty cool. The only problem is, when you shave it off, you look so weird to yourself, because you've gotten used to it.

I'm thinking of getting a moustache, just to see if I look good in it, or if I'll look like a porno-actor. Either way, I know people would laugh hard at me ^^

Well I doubt I'll be shaving mine off so I wont have to look at myself like that. I will only shave if I ever meet someone nice who doesn't like it.

So I'll have it for life, probably.

as for moustaches............you have to have a particular kinda face to pull them off. Or like you say, you'll resemble a 70's porno star.......or even a Village People gay

lol I tried to grow a goatee and after nearly two weeks it was barely noticeable. seems to grow fast for the first two days then after that stops lol So I shave it off. Plus my face is so young looking I think it would look silly on me anyway. I have never Burt a razor though as my dad gave me a load as he was doing work for gillette. But they have nearly gone now and he don't work for them any moor so am going to have to buy some soon from the shop. And ye I could not believe how much there are lol Rep-off!

i hate it i cant grow any facial hair with out looking stupid because my hair just is bloches all over my face. you know a spot here and there but nothing connected

My grandma has a moustache and she doesnt resemble a 70s porn star lol.

I can relate to this thread. After a terrible rejection that dragged out b4 it begun - some kind of odd sex toy thing what ever i was to some guy who was terribly emotionally horrible to me - someone who (myself) have been socially phobic for quite some time.

For the first time i was really dressing up - you know making a real girly effort to be all the best i could be in my confidence of my body image and asthetical.

Now i have just put on weight - i get his voices about me in my head and it puts me off looking after myself in that way again.

Im addicted to warm showers tho - but now even more lonlier than i was b4 i eat in comfort - im not big - infact i recently suffered an ED and recovered and now tho i am finding it hard to have any motivation to care about my looks and hygiene as much as i should do.

I used to be totally unclean for different reasons, but I'm now strong on the hygiene front.

When I'm depressed though I let myself fall apart in different ways... I'll shower every day, but still spend a whole day in pajamas. Sometimes I get incredibly down and either don't run at all or run much too hard and injure myself (I'm on the weak end of varsity high school cross country). I wake up and go to sleep at odd hours because I know it doesn't matter, nobody will be there whenever I'm awake. I spend my entire day attached to a computer even after my eyes get sore from it.

Hah, like reading about myself. I do the exact same thing.

I took a mean financial blow some months ago. As a result, I cut back dramatically on eating. I feel like I've lost some weight and I haven't exercised in months. All of the improvement I thought I was making towards sexying up seems to have been erased. I'll find my way back to the routine, but I feel crappy about it right now.