does any girl out there exist who cn be loyal forever? if yes then do reply!

lol...of course...
are there guys like that?

lolz... im loyal, or i was, when i was involved in sm sort of "so-called" relationships
been dumped twice for no reason... literally! i mean cmon! if u wanna break up, atleast tell me why?! no angels r gonna whisper ur reasons intop my head when im asleep!

anyways, all thats ancient history... and life goes on, and so does my search! it seems that this site was made just fr me! ^_^

There are girls of course but probably just as rare as the guys who can be 100% loyal too.

na...i doubt there is anyone loyal these day...lol
or maybe to be loyal u just have to love the person to death or somth

This post was last modified: 05-11-2008 06:48 AM by Incognita.

That is a scary thought.

How do You define loyalty? Are You referring to a woman who can stand by Your side until death do You part or a woman who never would refuse Your friendship? For two people to be together forever, in a close relationship i mean, it either requires alot of hard work or luck of having similar thoughts and wishes through the years. "Loyalty" isn't exactly a good word to use in that theme, is it? Friendship and love doesn't have to do with loyalty rather than mutual respect and giving to the other person what You want from him/her, does it? Why should a woman, or a man, stay together with someone if they feel they can't gain anything from the friendship? If You want a woman to stay loyal and to give You what You want, You have to do the very same. "Loyalty" makes it sound more like a slave & commander kind of motive.

Love is meant to fly, which includes leaving one branch for another if the first branch is about as loving as... as a branch. Friendship isn't as demanding, but easy come easy go. Social contacts of all sorts is work, which must mean that the harder we work, the longer they'll last.

If one person isn't part of the dreams that another person has, do You think that the second person should sacrifice his/her only life for the other one simply to stay "loyal", and let his/her dreams flush out in the ocean?

hmm... thats another perspective i need to keep in mind!
but no, by loyalty i just mean being "loyal"... as in smone i can completely trust, and smone whom i know will never cheat on me... or leave me fr someone else saying "i got bored with u" or smthing like that...

hmm... thats another perspective i need to keep in mind!
but no, by loyalty i just mean being "loyal"... as in smone i can completely trust, and smone whom i know will never cheat on me... or leave me fr someone else saying "i got bored with u" or smthing like that...

That happens to the best of us. Loyalty has different definitions for everyone. I mean recently I read this book about adultery and Russians don't believe that flings that take place on a beach is adultery. lol.
I know where you are coming from. You have to be ready to trust and be loyal on your end to meet someone like this. Since you and me have been lied and cheated on, we keep meeting people alike who are scared to open up. Thus you get the same old result in the end. lol.

This post was last modified: 06-28-2008 12:43 AM by ClosetGeek.

its funny u know... how even now i liked some one and just as history may repeat itself, it began wid "i'm busy i'll talk to u later" and now its ended with "get out of my life"... and here i am back at the same place, wondering where is it that i am truely goin wrong?! its not that i do anything unethical.. but still things to do wid relationships, they just never work out wid me.. heh, i wonder whom shud i blame for this other than myself! ^_^