Recent content by fruitbug

I come back time to time. I had an older account but I forgot the password 🤭

Nice to meet you too! :)

I think a lot can relate. I quit mine. I dreaded showing up every single day that it drove me to not show up anymore, lol. But then I found a better and small company with nice people and enjoyed it. But some days I do wish I could just be paid to live and not work lol....Yeah, we all work a...

Maybe she just said it as a way to comfort you? Were you sad at the time when you were talking to her or she just said it out of the blue? I don't think it would be a suicidal thought..maybe just to help you feel better.

It wouldn't bother me. I think thats something you should be proud of.

You're not alone! I am a grump too. I have a resting grumpy face, I even gave it to my son..lol. I surely won't smile at someone unless I feel the need to or am comfortable around them and that doesn't happen often (only with time). I also hate the fake stuff. I am not gonna pretend just to...

You are great, don't change that.

I feel the same way! But I reply late all the time so I understand late replies. If they are engaging in their response after a week, I know they're interested. If they give short replies with nothing to continue the conversation and it feels forced, I will not continue anymore lol, that's my...

Nah, there is always a chance. Age doesn't matter. You are unicorn though. Some women like that and I am sure one will love that about you. Please don't see it as a negative thing. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 27, but it was my choice: I didn't like anyone enough to want to...

I think people do that because they don't want to be alone.. I guess they have an option to who to go to when the other one doesn't work out? It's incredibly messed up. My husband did that to me and his excuse was: "I wanted to break up with you that time". I was like, well why didn't you...

What kind of dogs do you have? I feel the same way. I prefer animals over people lol. But I'm okay with being alone because I think my own company is better than forcing an interaction with someone and constantly trying to please them just to have them around. It's too much energy. But...

Do you want to talk about it?

No, I don't mind it. I know for a fact no one will be..except my sister and dad..and maybe husband and son. Honestly, that's alright with me.

I used to, but reality is different. But I still hope for it someday.

Friendship/support in another is fine, but emotionally invested isn't. Is there a reason why you guys drifted apart? Do you want to reconcile and be close again? It's better to try to fix it - do what made you guys fall in love with each other again - than to live with someone who just makes...