people around me only talk to me when they need somthing

people around me only talk to me when they need somthing

This is unfortunately just the way some ppl are. Its up to you to determine whether or not there using you are its just a matter of a friend asking for some help. Sometimes friends can be friends even when ppl are busy doing other things in life.

You will eventually find the right friend group. It took me a while, I know exactly the type of people you are talking about too. It's tough.

A very close friend of mine (or at least we used to be very close a couple of years ago and then our individual lives forced us to get a bit distant) left for a different part of the country forever yesterday. Everyone else in the friend circle that we share were there, but I never knew she was leaving and no one told me about the gathering. I guess I'll just accept the fact that I'm not important enough and move on.