Used to love romance........now I'm pretty certain I'll never experience it again
I can relate. Making a girl feel like she's the only one in the world was one of the most enjoyable things I've ever done...if not THE most enjoyable thing in my life.
If I never get to do that again, I'll be a very sad person...every year that I spend alone I get just a little more afraid of my future.
I am divorced now...been trying to get her to take me back for over a year, no good.
She even deletes her email accounts so I cant write to her.
what happened......???
im so nosy getting into JustLost's business also.... (((
After about 4 years of deteriorating relationship, I left her for a girl in USA. Spent 3 months in the States......only I realised I'd made a mistake after 2 weeks. Missed my children badly, and tried to get another chance with my wife. Her emails seemed encouraging but she shut me out totally when I got back to England. I should have worked harder at my marriage instead of taking the easy way out.......heh, its nothing like easy in reality. I am paying a heavy price.
sad...sorry to hear that...maybe u should get together with her over lunch or dinner, face to face...and tell her how sorry u are and stuff.Cause this isn't e-mail stuff at all.But u know, some ppl don't forgive cheating...
what kind of nagging u couldn't bear anymore?
Always complaining that the housework wasnt good enough (I was the stay at home part of the marriage), that I was on the PC too much, that I drank too much, that I swore too much,that I spent too much, in fact virtually anything. Some of it might have been true but not all. Plus the sex life had gone from being fantastic to non existent.
Anyway, I have tried face to face......also emails, phone calls, letters, cards, presents, flowers, everything.
All no good
Where are all the nice girls?
This post was last modified: 06-03-2008 05:10 AM by RobertJW.
Always complaining that the housework wasnt good enough (I was the stay at home part of the marriage), that I was on the PC too much, that I drank too much, that I swore too much,that I spent too much, in fact virtually anything. Some of it might have been true but not all. Plus the sex life had gone from being fantastic to non existent.
Maybe it just wasn't meant to be...People abuse this statement but sometimes things do happen for a reason...even if we can't presently see what that reason is. Perhaps it's fate making room for someone new to enter your life.
Who prefers it and who doesnt I do myself couldnt live without it
Romance is always great I look forward to having it again when I am able. Right now I'm so busy with my life I don't have time for anyone. It is also lonely because when I do have that few hours a day- I spend it alone usually. So glad I found this forum. It's a great way to spend an hour and not feel so alone. It's nice to have contact with people in whatever form that may be.
Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching, and live like its heaven on earth.
The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. -William James
Life is not lost by dying; life is lost minute by minute, day by dragging day, in all the thousand small uncaring ways. -Stephen Vincent Benet
I'm a bitch, I'm a tease I'm a goddess on my knees When you hurt, when you suffer I'm your angel undercover I've been numb, I'm revived Can't say I'm not alive You know I wouldn't want it any other way
Search
Member List
Calendar
Help
Rules
(((
couldnt live without it
I look forward to having it again when I am able. Right now I'm so busy with my life I don't have time for anyone. It is also lonely because when I do have that few hours a day- I spend it alone usually. So glad I found this forum. It's a great way to spend an hour and not feel so alone. It's nice to have contact with people in whatever form that may be. 
