Does your ego cast a shadow over noble truths?

My ego wrote that horrible sentence!

Yeah, I can't talk to guys. Except the one guy I sit beside in religion class, but thats mostly asking for help. Besides, he likes someone else anyways...

I'm just too shy to talk to any guys...

at least you had a bf. at least you had the experience of someone loving you. i never had any really girlfriend. never really did anything. im real romantically challenged too. i have a question tho is it easier for girls sometimes? i always wonder girls can just sit there and wait for some guy to like them. but guys always have to make the first move or the guy end up being the "friend" of the girl. i didnt make the move and she ended up being a friend... it was shittiest thing ever. and im sure BrokenDreams will find someone great in the future. someone will find BrokenDreams attractive in many ways not just physical. i love it when some girl that sits next to me just want to talk. dont be shy.

This post was last modified: 05-05-2007 07:11 PM by SighX99.

I watch my friends get girls, dance with their girlfriends at parties... and I know they are all after sex basically.
I seem to be like the only guy who just wants a close relationship with someone yet the only one who is single.

I have met the nicest girls throughout my life, true friends and all that. But even these nice honest people are attracted to boys that fuck around with their girl friends and are conceited twats.

I don't get it, do girls WANT to get hurt? I would treat anybody that way, I want to be nice, have talks about life... so nobody is attracted to me. I don't F*king get it!

actually the only guys i really do like are fat ones
i always found fat guys to be so sweet they will do anything to hold onto thier girls problem is they usually like the pretty lil sweet young ones too ,heavy guys want what they dont get ,a pretty girl.
yep,fat,ugly,handicapped,blind,nerdy,bald,old any or all of the above are very attractive to me just in percentage factors that they are less likely to screw you over so badly as they fear being alone too.
plus young or pretty guys are stressful they always look good and you try so hard to look good but they look better with ease,they look at girls and girls look back ,jealousy gets out of control
being big the only type of guy i keep away from is very small or skinny as i feel like i am overwhelming them ,i dont get the emotional boost i need that i am being taken care of.everyone else has a good chance with me as long as they are serious and not interested in hook ups only

I don't think it's any easier for girls. I know I would prefer to be approached by a guy, but that's never happened, so when I meet a guy a like, I try to approach him. And I've never had any luck doing that, so I don't think it's any easier for girls to get a guy than it is for guys to get a girl.

I always meet people, then theyd give hints even tell me they like me. But once i bite on their bait, theyd leave me hangin..
I dont think ill ever meet someone who'd be there and will stay.

Just dont think about it.

Look at pictures of Prince Harry or David Hasselhoff... or just any goddamn guy on this earth.

Jerk off to him.

Worked for me. I ridded myself of the pain for craving for women after they destroyed my heart and soul. Porn and escorts for me if I want sexual contact. Otherwise, a woman is just a friend. No crossing the DMZ lol.

If men and women are equal, this might work. Get yourself a giggolo or some gay porn (all the big muscled good looking naked men are there)...

Sweetviki, since You already seem like the dreamgirl, and i don't mean physcially (which might be true as well, being a model candidate); caring, loving and intelligent, all at the same time, and are one of thos poor souls who've been faced with the three kind of people i want to perform a headshot on, my only advice to You is to start using some online service.

I'm not saying that You aren't ever gonna find the man of Your dreams by meeting them in places like bars or whatever, but i think You have had just about enough of crap from the scum of the earth already. By creating a profile on a match-making service online You can easily find the person You're looking for by simply reading his profile and message this person online for as long as You want before You'd want to meet. The most of the people who are active at websites like these are the one's who truly want to find a lifepartner.

You sound just like the typical girl of Your age. BD, being 15 years old doesn't mean that You got to have a boyfriend. There's a very low percentage of the people that meet someone in Your age who don't regret that they ever did it. They just do it because "everybody else does" and end up being alone again after jumping from guy to guy/ girl to girl. Sure it would be good to have some experience before You went going for real, but it' definitely not necessary. You ever heard the saying "Girls mature faster than boys" ? When it comes to love, that couldn't more true; most guys in Your age are way out sailing when it comes to follow their hearts. It's the unloved, bullied guys who mature and realise the important things in life faster than the others boys.

Everyone, and especially guys, grow more handsome by the years and hopefully You'll see one day, soon, that the wishes of the heart tend to take over when they grow stronger. You wouldn't want the most good looking guys around You; they are the one's that take their looks to advantage when using others to get what they want. Both You and them are too young to start getting serious with relationships. Don't worry! You'll get there too! We are all so impatient to grow up when we're as young as You are but You shouldn't spoil it by doing like those stupid other one's do.

And just for the sake of it, since sex is a part of most relationships, the vast majority of the people who lost their virginity during their younger years regret that they didn't wait. You should be proud of Yourself in general for not acting unthoughtful like so many others do in Your age! Keep up the great spirit for improving Your grades and You'll thank Yourself in a few years!

Let's see, not on the internet, and not in the bars or the clubs. So where do You find them? In the sea? Where You look has nothing to do with if You're going to find the right one or not; the chances of doing so just differs. Online services are considered the most likely and fastest way, since You can get to see the personal side of a person much quicker; find out who he/she really is before You meet.

You really remind me of myself when i was younger. If You love a girl who You currently "only" are a friend with i would say it's the perfect chance to show her Your true feelings for her. It's the third time i write this today; women love attention. You got to show her that You have feelings for her if You want to know if she have feelings for You, it's the only fair way. But, like i already said, if You don't feel like it's a good idea, You have a lot of time left to figure out a good way to tell a women that You love her. Do You want to talk more about this, X99? You could send me a Personal Message and i'll gladly help You.

And i'ts very sweet of You to write so dearly about BD. I think You're right about that, X99! You seem like a real gentleman, too. You're gonna make a girl very happy one day, You know.