I am 5ft 9 and weigh around 170...but ten years ago used to weigh around 130...then someone introduced me to alcohol and I turned 30...that seemed to solve it for me.

Joking apart though...again we cannot say that women want this...we have to trust ourselves enough to know that what we have to offer is what someone will like somewhere...we will all find them eventually.

Belief in ourselves is something that takes a long time to achieve...but we will one day...it has taken me 37 years to get where I am today...and my belief in myself has grown to almost the highest it has ever been...but it has taken me a lot to get here.

Oh the truth always hits me hardest.

I was out a long time ago with this girl. We where not going out together, just friends. She is overweight by quite a bit. This kid come up to her and called her fat. she said ye but I can loss weight, You well always be a ugly fucker lol Strait out with it. This was one of the fastest comebacks I had ever seen. I lechurouly fall onto the flow laughing.

But its true. I mean if you had a deformity you would never be able to change that. where as you can by hard work and determination loss the weight as you are doing all ready.

This post was last modified: 07-19-2008 07:25 PM by Bluey.

It is a good comeback but it is sad that just because someone may have some extra weight, that another will take that as a justification for being rude to them.

Well, with rice & water being the menu as a result of me being glass broke, I guess I'll be able to join the club soon!

True, BTW I did not go out with her cos she was overweight. Just there was nothing there for us in that way. just needed to make that clear. I don't see her now even as a friend. But again that's another story

But ye I walk with a limp and its the same thing, Some ppl think just cos of that it gives them the right to make jokes and the spak'o noses that they make are the worst.

Yes that also. they either don't realize or don't care that some of their comments or jokes are down right rude. They can act like the limp is a choice and they want to express their opinion on that 'choice'.

I so wish to walk with a limp was a choice, I really do. I so would not chose that.

I spent like 26 years of my life being underweight. People used to call me "matchsticks" and "iron board" cause I had no curves. You need to see a specialist doctor like someone else here recommended. You need to have a check up and see what's up. Two things that help you gain weight: appropiate food and appropiate sleep. There are also some pills which increase your appetite. I took those for a while and gained weight. Nowadays I have a very normal weight.

O cool thanks for the info, I didn't know that sleep had anything to do with it:O