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Sorry it took so long :(

Hi, I updated the site/server so now alonelylife.com enforces using an encrypted connection between the users and the server (https). Besides this, everything should work (as well as they) did before. /Bjarne

Hi, Check it out: http://www.salon.com/topic/i_am_lonely/

Wondering what changes you think this website needs the most? In case you're wondering about the recent speed increase, I just moved the site to a less populated server at linode, which practically only runs this site now. Other ideas noted so far: More smilies An option to hide the banners...

Everything should be working as normal :) Just applied the latest, minor, update.

Everything -should- be ok. I'm afraid however that I forgot to close the forum at the old host first, this means that -SOME- posts could be lost (depending on how the DNS propagates). ( if you see this message, your are on the new server..) UPDATE: I just suspended the site on the old server...

Hi, Do you think it would make any sense to create a facebook page for A Lonely Life? (and promote it here on the site obviously) Bjarne

I will move this forum to a different server (the URL will stay the same), probably over the comming weekend. What this will means is that you will notice somewhere between 1 hour and 48 hours of downtime (depending on your ISPs DNS servers - for most people it should not be no more than a few...

Hi, I would like to thank you for the donations, it is much appreciated. It goes towards the hosting costs of the site. Basically with the donations alonelylife.com will receive a higher priority when it comes to hosting on my servers. Regarding the download last night (central european time...

Hi, I fixed http://chat.alonelylife.com/ to point correctly to the current chat room. Bjarne

I have updated the forum software. Unfortunately this has broken more or less all existing plugins. That'll teach us! Basically we should focus on only having as few plugins as possible to make upgrading easier and smoother. There's a few things around that are broken now, I'll be trying to...

Hi, The recent downtime was caused by a major database disruption during which at least one table disappeared. Working with my ISP (thank you ServInt!) we have restored a backup of the database from yesterday - because the backup used is so recent, only relatively few posts/pms has been lost...

Hi all, Thought I would provide some statistics about the number of people hitting this site. Mind you these statistics are not highly accurate, but they should give an indication. edit: I probably will delete this thread after a while...

Hi, Sorry that I have so little around ! I just have so little time :-( (got a full-time job and too many websites to manage :/ ) There was a security update for the myBB forum software that the site runs on. I have applied it to the site. Bjarne edit: in case someone is wondering about who...

Hi, Personally, I have a little problem with the shoutbox, even in the updated version/placement. Shoutbox'es/chat's are ok, but I really do not believe that they should be on the index/frontpage. What do you think?

This forum ( Success stories/experiences ), is more strictly regulated and moderated than others. You should stay to the point when posting a new thread as well as when posting a new reply. The point of this forum is to allow people who has had positive experiences with fighting loneliness to...

October and November me and my GF is planning a trip to the USA. The duration of the trip is going to be around 45 days. So far we're planning on doing a cross-country journey, something like this (very rough): New York Niagara Falls (Chicago/Detroit) St Louis Route 66'ish, covering among other...

Hi, I created this forum for registered users to talk about loneliness in general. This is if you want to talk to other people, but not to anonymous guests (that are on the "I am lonely" forum). It is easier to build relationships to named users whom you can contact by PM than it is to build...

This is just a suggestion, but it is a thing I know many people would appreciate: Fill in your profile data, in particular it would be very nice if you could specify: your location sex birthday (thus age). This will help people getting a better idea of who you are, and what timezone you are...

I'm going to a job interview on Wednesday... Wish me luck... Please.... ;)