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    Life size dolls, anyone?

    A life-size doll won't reject you (if it does, you have problems). It won't get all pathetic and whiny and suddenly want kids. It won't feed you disgusting things. It won't throw away your prized possessions. It won't push you away when you really need a hug. It will never whine about being...
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    Scams That Prey On the Lonely

    Yep, I've seen profiles on multiple dating sites with the same stolen photos. Believe it or not, a few of them are stolen photos of well-known people, and the bumbling scammers think we'll never figure it out. I once saw a fake profile on a well-known OLDS in which some joker tried to pass off...
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    Life size dolls, anyone?

    I'm holding out for just 2 more years. If the right woman hasn't picked up my brain waves and homed in on me by the time I turn 50, I'll just say the hell with it and buy one of those life-size silicone love dolls. I'm asexual, so she ought to last until I'm 80 at least.
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    What is the craziest thing you`ve done?

    Well, there ain't no law against driving around with a Jason Voorhees mask on... I actually did this 4 or 5 times. Drove safely, never got pulled over... :rolleyes:
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    This is why it sucks.

    Went to another speed dating event on 1-14. This one was a freebie because I didn't get picked last time. Anyhow, the more I go to singles events without getting picked, the more I learn and the more experience I gain... but I keep coming back to the same conclusion: women need to stop being...
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    Met someone/working on myself

    TBH I suspect there are more lonely people who don't want sex than they're letting onto because of the shame factor. Thanks a lot, media... :-(
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    Met someone/working on myself

    I'm starting to think it would be a lot easier for more people to get into good relationships if only someone could give them a space where shaming behavior is not allowed... About a month ago, I went to a speed dating event, expecting to be turned down by all the women... but lo and behold...
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    Being an asexual giant can have its perks

    One perk about being openly asexual is that occasionally you get contacted with an offer to be in a documentary project being filmed by some student or other. That's what happened to me yesterday... out of the blue, some film student at a local university e-mails me with an offer to be...
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    paranoia at work ?

    Unfortunately I'm rather paranoid at work because my bosses and co-workers stress me out. I don't understand how my co-workers can act so gung-ho about a dead end job, unless they either have no ambition or they're GREAT actors. Me, I have my escape hatch... under CA state law, my employer...
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    BO

    Yep, eating garlic makes me stink. That's why I cut way back on it. I couldn't smell a catbox if it was on fire, but boy, women can smell me a mile away if I ate garlic the day before. Maybe it wouldn't be such a problem if I can try to meet women who smoke...
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    OMG they flirted with me!!!

    I tried out a new meetup group on Sunday the 6th (this one is for 40+ yo singles). I didn't meet anyone there I'd want to date, but at least 3 of the women were flirting with me, one of them very overtly. Even I couldn't miss the cues this time. Needless to say, I'm not quitting that group...
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    Started a new meetup group...

    Well, I have my own theory for that... Mother Nature was actually quite brilliant when she decided to wire cavemen's brains to get a pleasure hit every time a caveman had sex. With saber tooth tigers and cave bears running around and eating most of our babies, we humans needed a way to out-breed...
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    Started a new meetup group...

    If only. It's a catch-22... you'd either need to figure out how to make women hornier overall, or be satisfied with an alternative like a Fleshlight or a Realdoll.
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    Can loneliness cause laziness?

    Yes, it can. I can only speak for myself, but I've had those spells of "why should I knock myself out to clean up the property and fix the place up, when I have no SO to appreciate it?" Things are different now though... I enrolled in construction school, and I started a meetup group.
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    Started a new meetup group...

    I celebrated the 1st day of summer by making good on my promise to start a meetup group aimed primarily at asexuals, celibates, virgins, and other types who've been shamed by the Propaganda Machine. I did so partly for myself---I'm very choosy and I know what I'm looking for in a woman---but...
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    It feels like my parents don't want me to have my own life

    I went through a phase like that with my mother, until she figured out that I had no interest in being a JD and joining the dumb-tough culture. Nowadays, however, it's bosses who don't want me to have my own life, but that's one reason why I have my sights set on becoming self-employed in about...
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    I have a Pygmalion complex.

    Ah well... at least I learned how to sketch women with gorgeous faces over the last 20 years.
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    I have a Pygmalion complex.

    I googled the term "Pygmalion complex", assuming (wrongly) that I'd get a lot of psych pages... but the only thing I pulled up was an entry on urbandictionary.com. I don't try to hide the fact that I'm picky about which traits I find attractive in a woman, and which traits turn me off... I've...
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    Win some, lose some

    What a dope I am! I saw my neighbor again this afternoon and asked him about the format of the test I'll have to take. He said it's formatted pretty much like the ham radio test I took back in '95: a bunch of multiple choice questions complete with answers (in the sudy guide), with the catch...
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    Describe the Boogeyman of your childhood.

    Good question... I think when the boogie/disco craze swept the country in the mid-70s, some kids picked up on it and got the idea that the Boogie Man danced and grinned a lot. Suddenly he didn't seem so scary.
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