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That is such a profound perspective. When death comes for those we love, young or old, whether you've had a lifetime together of a brief moment in eternity, it's such a deep loss. It's a sad testament to what we as a culture place value on. I know when my father was dying I went to see him...

You said he returned all those things but the key. I think you should ask him for the key back - or change your locks. He doesn't deserve to step foot back at your place. If I were you, my trust would be gone with him the moment he walked away and returned you all those things. There is no...

You have the prerogative to make a conscious choice to be alone. I respect your decision. However be sure you're making the decision for the right reasons. The worst thing we can do is go into a relationship with expectations, and when those expectations aren't met we feel hurt. The truth is...

Might I suggest finding a more positive outlet? I too at times feel a tremendous desire for pain, so I go and get a tattoo. Three hours under the needle, half of that shading. That left me feeling raw for two days. Many people don't understand that need but there are constructive ways to hurt...

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Thank you, I appreciate your candor. (And your avatar.) Sometimes talking to strangers is easier than talking to someone you know and who knows you well. I thought about therapy but... it's hard to find a good therapist. (And my benefits suck.) I have a blessing, and a curse; Chiron. I can help...

In this case, that's totally not true. I absolutely care about her feelings. The terrible thing to have happen is for her to think any part of her is wrong, because we possibly aren't built compatibly. Listen, human though we all are, men and women are two totally different species, and each...

I so agree with this. There are reasons for sad songs, and sometimes you need to just get it out, have a good cry. I find that I sleep like a baby after a good cry. And it's funny because a certain song can make me cry, and I'll listen to it a week later and nothing. I have songs for people and...

I'm just throwing this out there but, why do you feel it would be a negative thing? It doesn't really require guts, it's just about being honest. Communication is important and you can be honest, even direct with someone without it being condescending or mean. I appreciate that candor from...

Not sure if I should post here, or under depression, or under relationships... Please don't feel obliged to read all of this. I just need to get it out. I'm lonely. And I'm depressed. I know why I feel this way, I understand it, but know why doesn't make it any easier to cope with. In truth I...