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  1. Matt L

    Thinking About Moving to NYC

    I've lived in a small rural town in Kentucky my whole life. I'm not a country person. I've always loved going to bigger towns and the excitement of city life. I'm 24 years old, never been to college, and I've had 1 job my entire life. I'm a minimum wage stock worker at a local grocery store...
  2. Matt L

    Feeling sad that I'll likely never have more than one sexual partner

    I'm 24 and I finally have my first girlfriend. We've been together since this past February and things have been great. We have a lot in common in terms of interests and personality. However, for the past couple weeks I've been having sad spells. I regret not having more sexual experiences with...
  3. Matt L

    I will be the end of my family line

    I'm the only son so its up to me to continue the family. I really don't care all that much. My family has never amounted to anything. Still, it does depress me knowing that over the years my family has survived through wars, famine, and disease but it couldn't survive my awkwardness and social...
  4. Matt L

    I'm a sad, pathetic person who doesn't deserve a relationship

    Confession Post. Whenever I'm not at work I spend my time online. I stay up late chatting with people on forums and reddit, sharing pictures of girls I find on Tinder, or ones I've known from school or work and jerk off. I've always felt weird about it but I feel bad now that I've shared my...
  5. Matt L

    Frustrated with dating sites

    It makes me feel so demoralized that I've been using 3 different dating sites, Tinder in particular for a little over a year now and I've met only one girl and that date went nowhere. I've liked roughly 50 girls last week and not one match. I'm lucky to get 2 matches a month and its a stretch if...
  6. Matt L

    No Future

    Loneliness and depression has been with me for as long as I can remember. For the past few years I've been feeling like nothing matters and its affecting every aspect of my life. I've kept the same boring retail job for 4 years now because I'm too unmotivated to try something different. I'm too...
  7. Matt L

    Infatuated with a new girl I work with.

    Context. I'm 23, I've only had 2 dates my whole life and they went nowhere and I've never been intimate with a woman in any way. She's 27, has a boyfriend and I'm certain she's had plenty of experience.  She got the job 2 months ago and shortly after I asked her out for lunch with me, knowing...
  8. Matt L

    My loneliness is causing me extreme anger and agitation

    I've been suffering from this for the past few years but lately I feel its getting worse. I'm typically a laid back person overall but my pent up feelings of sadness, hopelessness and stress cause me to lash out over the simplest of things. Shortly before typing this my computer will randomly...
  9. Matt L

    Had my first date tonight, unsure how I feel.

    A co-worker set me up with her daughter and I took her to a movie. She's very cute, nice and sweet. She's a lot like me in that we're both introverted, not good with people, we suffer from anxiety and we share similar interests. Since we're both anxious it was difficult to maintain a...
  10. Matt L

    Just venting

    Feeling pissed. All weekend everyone else was out in full force, enjoying the nice fall weather. Couples holding hands and kissing in public everywhere I go.  The only two people I consider friends very rarely invite me to do anything. I'm crazy for a girl whom I rarely see and likely doesn't...
  11. Matt L

    It wasn't much, but tonight was the best night of my life.

    About a month ago my oneitis got fired from work. Well shortly after I acquired her number and we keep in touch via text, albeit we don't text much. I see her about once a week at most for only a couple minutes when she stops by work to see her mother. Anyway, this evening she stopped by the...
  12. Matt L

    Potential First Date Stood Me Up

    I've been texting with this girl I like for the past couple weeks. She agreed to meet up with me and go for lunch as friends this past saturday. Of course she never showed. Pathetically I waited in my car for 2 hours and fell asleep for about 2 more, holding out hope. She never texted me she...
  13. Matt L

    I'm 22 and can't even get a 16 year old girl to date me. I feel so pathetic.

    There's a new girl at work who I like a lot. She's fun, energetic and a friendly person to be around. She's the second girl in my life that I've built the nerve to ask out. She told me that she isn't allowed to date other guys just yet. But the next week I find out she has a "kinda sorta...
  14. Matt L

    I think a girl may have asked me out and I'm conflicted.

    This girl and who I assume are either her sisters or friends shop in the grocery store I work at on a regular basis. Today one of them approached me and asked if this girl, who was standing in the background giggling, could add me on Facebook. I gave her my name and she sent me a request which I...
  15. Matt L

    How do I overcome unrequited love?

    I've been in love (or fixated?) with a girl at work for almost a year now. She's with someone, she knows I like her and many co-workers know. They like to tease me and its gotten to the point that my manager had to talk to me about it. I don't want to get over her even though I know nothing will...
  16. Matt L

    Loneliness is killing me.

    I'm 20 years old and I have no friends. I live in a shitty small town with nothing to do and nowhere to go, surrounded by people I can't connect with, i.e insular rednecks. My teen years or the "best years of my life" were a complete waste and I have no one good memory/experience from those...
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